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totbl

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  1. unless we have enough to set up an over 30s foxestalk team?
  2. got the link please mate (lazy I know)? will look up some teams
  3. Yeah that's spot on, did you find any leagues/teams? I'm 33 but maybe still could sneak in. Looking at normal Sunday/Saturday local leagues on Facebook etc. it doesn't look appealing - just want to have a good kickaround and a laugh
  4. I'm in my 30s and not played football properly since I was in uni other than the odd 6 a side here and there. I used to be alright and my fitness is ok. Wanting to get back into it in some level, what's sort of level/standard is best? Looking to play with people who don't take it too seriously but are competitive and aren't bellends kicking each other for 90 minutes. I don't think that exists in Sunday league but maybe there's some decent 7 or 8 a side games somewhere?
  5. I don't think we've had those principles since Pearson left or thereabouts.
  6. Would take 50mil for him all day long, in reality overrated, we can do better and Chelsea isn't a good move for him. Lampard won't last there and they won't be challenging for trophies
  7. Totally agree and the key point there is if we're looking to go up a level - because Nacho, Evans, Albrighton (with respect), Perez, Hamza are not good enough for that level.
  8. Totally agree. Still relying on Vardy with seemingly no plan in place as to replacement or even a decent backup. The fact Wes played for us today says it all (no disrespect to him)
  9. Fuming. How are we still solely reliant on Vardy after so many years. Absolutely inept unless Vardy does it for us. All respect to Wes for all he's done for us, but again, how can it be we have to play him at 36 in a massive game for us. Our squad is not strong enough and we need to have a good transfer window.
  10. any going please lads? cheers
  11. Would massively appreciate a code if there are any going please - cheers!
  12. totbl

    Depression

    Agree totally with this - I had my first proper CBT today (after the first 'kick off' one). The materials and stuff are helpful, but the biggest thing was just talking to someone external to your life and them helping you work through it. Without sounding too airy fairy about it - as someone who keeps stuff bottled up in real life, being able to just be honest with someone outside your life felt pretty freeing - I couldnt have done that with someone I know. At first I didn't feel like the writing your worries down each day would help - but it does (or at least has for me in the last few days).
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    Depression

    I am mate - Sertaline. Since December, although it wasn't immediate. The longer I'm on them the more effective they seem to be, but also the more this issue has come up. It could be completely unlinked, but I can't see it
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    Depression

    I can definitely agree with the being content thing - which is great, but trying to figure out in my head if that is worth risking for the other thing. Might have a word with the doc and see what they say. Cheers for the reply
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    Depression

    For those on anti anxiety/depressants, interested in how much these have effected (negatively or otherwise) your sex life? A bit embarrassing to post this - but the last month or so I just couldn't care less about sex. I don't feel depressed, and in many ways I'm more mentally healthy than I've been in years. When I was at my most anxious, I was probably borderline addicted to sex/porn etc., but now my drive is so low, I don't feel like myself. I exercise, try and take care of myself etc. but I'm just happy going to work, doing whatever and going to sleep. I know this isn't the mos
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    Depression

    Agreed, the sleepiness eventually goes. I'm still partial to an afternoon nap, but it gets better. I could be wrong, I also feel that as your body eases out of its anxiety cycle a bit, it needs to rest more as it's been so active with anxiety symptoms and the up and down for so long.
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    Depression

    First time on medication? I've been on Sertraline since December - first few weeks (possibly month or two) I felt odd. Worth sticking with it, unless of course you feel totally sh*t. Good luck - and even if these ones aren't the ones, there are plenty more.
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    Depression

    Thank you and I apologise for my drunk post. Took some time today and things are a little better. We had this holiday to try and repair - but really what it's done is brought things into focus as to what the issues are, which is maybe what was needed. As ever, this thread is great. Chin up.
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    Depression

    You can do it and even if you can't you can pretend you can until you can.
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    Depression

    Just checking in when on holiday and thingsij suppose should be good. Me and my wife aren't good, and long story short, we are balancing up the 10 years past and good times and wondering what different lives now would be worth. Feels like being on a plane potentially about to crash into a mountain on its way to paradise but with the option of bailing out. ****ing autocorrect making me want to throw my phone at the wall. Argh . Another g and t please
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    Depression

    Been reading through this for the first time, can't really express how supportive this thread is and shows what a good community we have. I suffer with anxiety, my wife on and off with bouts of depression (what a team we make). Just wanted to say hi really - but also for anyone suffering with panic attacks/anxiety, I can't stress how much this guys books have helped me (link below), arguably more than medication (though both help each other). I'd had anxiety for years, only opened up enough to go to the doctors in December - still a struggle but found reading and writing my own notes/thoughts
  22. £200 for PC. £205 for the lot. Who isn't mate. I'm only selling as a token gesture to the wife that I'm clearing out my Peter Canero stash. I say stash, it's most of the upstairs, posters, worn shirts, drawings.
  23. Haha my thoughts too. I really liked that 02/03 side, but then it just gets worse. Says something that me as a kid couldn't be bothered with autographs after 04/05
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