I've been there before, She gasps and holds her breath and it really does put me off especially when there is no need for it i always tell her i've had my licence for 3 years i've done about 10,000 miles following City Carlisle, Swansea, Portsmouth, Norwich i've been to them all with my brother and Nephew do they Gasp and puff and pant? No they fall asleep or wake up and open a bottle of coke for me or a bag of crisps much better company