lookwhaticando Posted 4 October 2006 Posted 4 October 2006 Don't you just love being right? Not all the time, not for me anyway. Good friend (female) of mine had been with her boyfriend since February 2005. They had their good times and bad, more often more bad than good, but still, they remained as one. The boyfriend has never trusted me... never. His reasoning was I was too-close a friend to the girl - he'd been in a similar position. Single, close male friend to a girl who gets herself a boyfriend - and suddenly the good friend realizes he's mad about the girl and so on... Fair enough, he's never trusted me or liked me, frankly I could care less. If he doesn't trust me, I sure as hell don't trust him. I made my views very clear to the girl. It's my duty, as designated close male friend, to tell her that I think her boyfriend is a nasty piece of work. Anyways... during the course of the relationship, he decided to partake in a wonderful hobby known as cyber-sex. Don't ask me how the hell that works... you slip your computer a few inches of man meat thru the USB port or what? Well, anyways, the girl discovered all these pictures from his sessions and was naturally upset. She considered it cheating (as do I... it's not exactly 'real' but it's hardly being faithful now, is it?) They recently moved out and into seperate living spaces (brought about partly by the fact they would sometimes fight just a bit too much to cohabit effectively... partly for money reasons and so on...) The bloke apparently wasn't coping well by this time, living apart was killing him... so he did what he does best - smokes a lot of pot and watches porn. Well, apparently, not seeing her as much was killing him inside - so he put the relationship on a two week break. The girl told me she wasn't sure that she'd have him back when the break was up... and after careful deliberation, she dumped him when he declared the relationship open for business. Bravo soft girl, you did it. I'm proud. Anyways, she's obviously not on the lookout for a new boyfriend just yet, that'd be daft... still, that doesn't mean she can't see other people, the odd date here and there... One of them is really interested in her, he works at the coffee shop - needless to say, she's not paid for coffee in weeks (he's been around a while now, but has been pretty quiet all told). Actually, she's off the coffee for a while, she's had too much. haha Well, the ex wasn't best pleased to here she had been on a date with another guy... but he wasn't so displeased that he cancelled his request that she bring him thanksgiving dinner. At this point, we come forward a few days - yesterday morning... I'm awoken by the sound of my phone - text message reads "I just wanted to say you were right. You said he was an ass, and you were right. He ****ed one of his internet sluts while he bitched at me about my date" I enjoy being right, but that just wasn't cool at all. Good job she'd dumped him already, or he'd be a dead man today.
Thracian Posted 4 October 2006 Posted 4 October 2006 Don't you just love being right? Not all the time, not for me anyway. Good friend (female) of mine had been with her boyfriend since February 2005. They had their good times and bad, more often more bad than good, but still, they remained as one. The boyfriend has never trusted me... never. His reasoning was I was too-close a friend to the girl - he'd been in a similar position. Single, close male friend to a girl who gets herself a boyfriend - and suddenly the good friend realizes he's mad about the girl and so on... Fair enough, he's never trusted me or liked me, frankly I could care less. If he doesn't trust me, I sure as hell don't trust him. I made my views very clear to the girl. It's my duty, as designated close male friend, to tell her that I think her boyfriend is a nasty piece of work. Anyways... during the course of the relationship, he decided to partake in a wonderful hobby known as cyber-sex. Don't ask me how the hell that works... you slip your computer a few inches of man meat thru the USB port or what? Well, anyways, the girl discovered all these pictures from his sessions and was naturally upset. She considered it cheating (as do I... it's not exactly 'real' but it's hardly being faithful now, is it?) They recently moved out and into seperate living spaces (brought about partly by the fact they would sometimes fight just a bit too much to cohabit effectively... partly for money reasons and so on...) The bloke apparently wasn't coping well by this time, living apart was killing him... so he did what he does best - smokes a lot of pot and watches porn. Well, apparently, not seeing her as much was killing him inside - so he put the relationship on a two week break. The girl told me she wasn't sure that she'd have him back when the break was up... and after careful deliberation, she dumped him when he declared the relationship open for business. Bravo soft girl, you did it. I'm proud. Anyways, she's obviously not on the lookout for a new boyfriend just yet, that'd be daft... still, that doesn't mean she can't see other people, the odd date here and there... One of them is really interested in her, he works at the coffee shop - needless to say, she's not paid for coffee in weeks (he's been around a while now, but has been pretty quiet all told). Actually, she's off the coffee for a while, she's had too much. haha Well, the ex wasn't best pleased to here she had been on a date with another guy... but he wasn't so displeased that he cancelled his request that she bring him thanksgiving dinner. At this point, we come forward a few days - yesterday morning... I'm awoken by the sound of my phone - text message reads "I just wanted to say you were right. You said he was an ass, and you were right. He ****ed one of his internet sluts while he bitched at me about my date" I enjoy being right, but that just wasn't cool at all. Good job she'd dumped him already, or he'd be a dead man today. Thank God I've got golf!
Daggers Posted 4 October 2006 Posted 4 October 2006 he decided to partake in a wonderful hobby known as cyber-sex. ...She considered it cheating (as do I... it's not exactly 'real' but it's hardly being faithful now, is it?) I don't get how having 'one off the wrist' is now being unfaithful? Surely you need to have proper sex for that to work? Canada is a funny place.
gatesheadfox Posted 4 October 2006 Posted 4 October 2006 I don't get how having 'one off the wrist' is now being unfaithful? if it was i'd have some great experiences to tell......unfortunately not though
Daggers Posted 4 October 2006 Posted 4 October 2006 if it was i'd have some great experiences to tell......unfortunately not though ...like, there was this one time when I told my left hand that I was going to the bathroom to wash my hair but really met up with my right hand. We must have been seen going in together because old Lefty sulked for three days afterwards
gatesheadfox Posted 4 October 2006 Posted 4 October 2006 ...like, there was this one time when I told my left hand that I was going to the bathroom to wash my hair but really met up with my right hand. We must have been seen going in together because old Lefty sulked for three days afterwards i was meaning the great experiences i have witnessed while doing such things....which seem to be cheating now so i can say i did them
lookwhaticando Posted 4 October 2006 Author Posted 4 October 2006 I don't get how having 'one off the wrist' is now being unfaithful? Surely you need to have proper sex for that to work? Canada is a funny place. Well, in fact, these cyber activities later led him to actually properly shag someone - so he was laying the foundations at the very least. Some months back, he said something like "I want to use my experience with you to meet other people" (said to my friend). Also, there is some verbal contact with these online tarts - it's not just like you're rubbing yourself off to a picture of some unnamed porn star taking months ago... you're actually dating them online almost - you talk to them, find out everything before doing anything. I think the worse part of it was the fact he'd talk to these internet tarts about his relationship problems - talking to them as if they were close friends...
Fez of Mahrez Posted 4 October 2006 Posted 4 October 2006 Well, in fact, these cyber activities later led him to actually properly shag someone - so he was laying the foundations at the very least. Some months back, he said something like "I want to use my experience with you to meet other people" (said to my friend). Also, there is some verbal contact with these online tarts - it's not just like you're rubbing yourself off to a picture of some unnamed porn star taking months ago... you're actually dating them online almost - you talk to them, find out everything before doing anything. I think the worse part of it was the fact he'd talk to these internet tarts about his relationship problems - talking to them as if they were close friends... It's you isn't it.
lookwhaticando Posted 4 October 2006 Author Posted 4 October 2006 It's you isn't it. How dare you sully my good name. No. It's not me.
Fez of Mahrez Posted 4 October 2006 Posted 4 October 2006 How dare you sully my good name. No. It's not me. Hmm, using instead of . You doth protest too much.
lookwhaticando Posted 4 October 2006 Author Posted 4 October 2006 Hmm, using instead of . You doth protest too much. You're giving this too much thought... ... it's YOU isn't it?
Fez of Mahrez Posted 4 October 2006 Posted 4 October 2006 You're giving this too much thought... ... it's YOU isn't it? It couldn't possibly be me. That guy is getting way more than me, even if he doesn't meet the women.
lookwhaticando Posted 4 October 2006 Author Posted 4 October 2006 It couldn't possibly be me. That guy is getting way more than me, even if he doesn't meet the women. He met one of them.
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