i think we should accept that in this new pic and mix society we can choose which bits of being equall we want. that we can have it all our own way.
It can be confusing for some of use with new genders appearing and people changing a friends daughter decided she want to go buy another name but her dad has trouble after 16 years of calling her A to automatically calling her b. As a kid i was often at the end of a list of bobby, geogie, shep before my mum got to my name perhaps it was an early sign of the dementia she would suffer from later in life who knows , perhaps it was the order in which we had caused trouble to her in the past.