MPH Posted 11 January 2017 Posted 11 January 2017 On 1/7/2017 at 03:54, ozleicester said: this pretty much explains my opinion .... ...it explicitly expresses that the sayer of the phrase does not want to be perceived or mistaken for being homosexual, and thus that there is something bad, shameful, undesirable, wrong, or unwanted about being, or being perceived as being homosexual - whereas it should not matter at all whether you are homosexual or not, or perceived to be such, and there should be no stigma or remarkableness associated with it. You don't know who might (over)hear it and be secretly struggling with their sexuality, and thus be pushed further into the closet/made to feel bad or sad... Im going to leave this here so that i dont derail the topic any further. Unless of course you are interested in a woman and someone tells her you are gay or someone tells your wife you make 'gay comments' online.Surely that's ok to not want those to think you are gay whilst at the same not thinking anything bad about those that are?
ARCHER Posted 11 January 2017 Posted 11 January 2017 Needless to say, I won't be asking any of the previous posters to push my stool in.
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