i am 85 days clean from weed . i smoked it for 23 yrs . 20 of those years i would have been on the pro side of weed and argued the toss that it was no worse than alcohol etc etc etc . it all depends on the user . why am i 85 days clean ? why have i stopped smoking weed ? well the last three years i was ruined by weed . i was invaded by the demons of weed . i was extreme in my thoughts , my mood swings were awful , my paranoia was awful too . i was suicidal and deeply depressed . i couldnt believe it was weed that was doing this . but it was . it eventually cost me my family , my love of my life , my life as a family man that i have always been . being in my 85th day of a life without weed , i now look back and just cannot understand how it changed me the last few years as a person but it did . i will never smoke it again, it controlled my life . i have had counselling which has helped me through the withdrawal symptons and mind change .im fine now , clear headed . i cant now say legalise it or not . but it definitely got to me in the end ,it ruined my life , my love of my lifes life and ripped my family apart .i am single because of weed . there is always two sides to every story .mine is i wish i had never ever touched the stuff . im happy being clean , my health and mental health is better , my wallet is fuller and my house doesnt stink . the only thing that still stinks cus of weed is my life !!