First, and most importantly of all, I hear you, and I appreciate you responding like this.
Second, the reason I largely avoid it all now is BECAUSE I know how contextually irrelevant we all are, really. So I can rage about it, or spend my energies elsewhere.
Thirdly, please forgive my occasional snark. Ultimately, I don't much like a lot of what appears to be going on either, and I simply wish that my fellow fan could disengage healthily, because we no longer have even the illusion of it being 'our' club anymore - I don't think it ever really was, but it certainly isn't now.