Lukeh Posted 26 September 2005 Posted 26 September 2005 Ok my mate 'Bob' needd some advice! Basically he broke up with his girl before summer holidays! Was going to see if he could get back together i find shes got a boyfriend. He's like 'o fock'.... He goes to a few partys, hucked up with this girl.. stuff hapened you dont need details but now shes gone cold on him saying hes too good for her.. Sooooo latey 'Bobs' first X's best friend got it on together a little, only reason i supose to get back at his X. Now he spoke to his X tonight and she still says she has feelings for 'Bob' and misses him.. take in mind she still in relationship and he broke up because she had no time for 'Bob'... What should 'Bob' do?
Cat Burger Posted 26 September 2005 Posted 26 September 2005 Adivse Bob's X to get some glasses Not really, bob don't need her. She doesn't know what she wants and thats only going to put bob through the bob so to speak!
Guest Posted 27 September 2005 Posted 27 September 2005 Actually, Bob's my brother! Seriously, 'Bob' should move on from his X, as per CB's comment. 'Bob' has his whole life ahead of him, and there's plenty of chances yet to meet a Mrs 'Bob'.
Sir JJ Wilcox Posted 27 September 2005 Posted 27 September 2005 what a load of bob Luke dont get back with her sounds like your having a faor bit of fun playing the field keep it up son.
Lukeh Posted 27 September 2005 Author Posted 27 September 2005 what a load of bob Luke dont get back with her sounds like your having a faor bit of fun playing the field keep it up son. 'Bob' doesn't know what your talking about...
Lukeh Posted 27 September 2005 Author Posted 27 September 2005 Seriously though i still have feelings for her and im not 100% sure but i think she does aswel! I dont know what to do as shes so busy..... people say to move on but what happened to the 'old' 'the 1 that got away'? Ive been thinking alot and i should be enjoying my life as i will never have these years again.... but i dont think i can be fully happy with out her... im so confused
cisono Posted 27 September 2005 Posted 27 September 2005 Seriously though i still have feelings for her and im not 100% sure but i think she does aswel! I dont know what to do as shes so busy..... people say to move on but what happened to the 'old' 'the 1 that got away'? Ive been thinking alot and i should be enjoying my life as i will never have these years again.... but i dont think i can be fully happy with out her... im so confused I thought we were talking about Bob!??! I can sympathise with your situation. The only suggestion I can give you is the following: Whatever you do, don't staying in this situation for too long, as it will just disperse all your energy for nothing. Just go for it/talk to her/move on/just make a decision.
Lukeh Posted 27 September 2005 Author Posted 27 September 2005 Its so hard to move on ive tried but when i see her with this guy...
cisono Posted 27 September 2005 Posted 27 September 2005 Its so hard to move on ive tried but when i see her with this guy... that's because in your mind you still want to be with her.
Lukeh Posted 27 September 2005 Author Posted 27 September 2005 that's because in your mind you still want to be with her. I know
Rincewind Posted 28 September 2005 Posted 28 September 2005 Ok my mate 'Bob' needd some advice! Basically he broke up with his girl before summer holidays! Was going to see if he could get back together i find shes got a boyfriend. He's like 'o fock'.... He goes to a few partys, hucked up with this girl.. stuff hapened you dont need details but now shes gone cold on him saying hes too good for her.. Sooooo latey 'Bobs' first X's best friend got it on together a little, only reason i supose to get back at his X. Now he spoke to his X tonight and she still says she has feelings for 'Bob' and misses him.. take in mind she still in relationship and he broke up because she had no time for 'Bob'... What should 'Bob' do? Call Randy Mandy on 0900347567321
Gamesmaster Posted 28 September 2005 Posted 28 September 2005 Ok my mate 'Bob' needd some advice! Basically he broke up with his girl before summer holidays! Was going to see if he could get back together i find shes got a boyfriend. He's like 'o fock'.... He goes to a few partys, hucked up with this girl.. stuff hapened you dont need details but now shes gone cold on him saying hes too good for her.. Sooooo latey 'Bobs' first X's best friend got it on together a little, only reason i supose to get back at his X. Now he spoke to his X tonight and she still says she has feelings for 'Bob' and misses him.. take in mind she still in relationship and he broke up because she had no time for 'Bob'... What should 'Bob' do? is bob you? ooh another boyfriend, deck him bob (take this from a guy with experience) should pretend its ok with her, but look elsewhere. make her think she needs to make up a little (make her pay somewhat) but dont abuse that thought. if you can, let her catch you at it with a bimbo and see how she likes it (eye for an eye), or if you meet the right one, tell her straight what the WHOLE deal is. you win, she loses and thats how you feel right now.
Scarby Posted 28 September 2005 Posted 28 September 2005 Dont mean to be harsh 'Bob' but get a life!!! Their are a hell of a lot of worst things in life than mopping around about about a bird! love or not you no what to do deep down you just want other people to back your opinions up! Things always sort themselves out in the end! you know what to do so just do it!! If things work out - great!!!!!! of not well atleast you tried
Lukeh Posted 28 September 2005 Author Posted 28 September 2005 is bob you? ooh another boyfriend, deck him bob (take this from a guy with experience) should pretend its ok with her, but look elsewhere. make her think she needs to make up a little (make her pay somewhat) but dont abuse that thought. if you can, let her catch you at it with a bimbo and see how she likes it (eye for an eye), or if you meet the right one, tell her straight what the WHOLE deal is. you win, she loses and thats how you feel right now. The thing is i thinks shes going to find out about what happened with me and her best mate...
Guest Posted 28 September 2005 Posted 28 September 2005 The thing is i thinks shes going to find out about what happened with me and her best mate... That's her problem, not yours Luke, sorry, 'Bob'. If you were single at the time, it doesn't matter to her what you do and with whom.
Cat Burger Posted 28 September 2005 Posted 28 September 2005 That's her problem, not yours Luke, sorry, 'Bob'. If you were single at the time, it doesn't matter to her what you do and with whom. Yer like her mam..
Sir JJ Wilcox Posted 28 September 2005 Posted 28 September 2005 We've all been there mate just forget about her screw every decent bird you can before your too old and your balls start to shrivel just enjoy being young and you'll soon forget about her take your mind off her by contracting an STI.
Katy Posted 28 September 2005 Posted 28 September 2005 We've all been there mate just forget about her screw every decent bird you can before your too old and your balls start to shrivel just enjoy being young and you'll soon forget about her take your mind off her by contracting an STI. Sound advice there Lukeh. AVOID! You a lovely looking lad and a lovely lad in general, you need to have some kind of closure (try burning pictures, letters etc...worked for me) and then set yourself a recovery challenge. Go out with your mates and just have some 'you' time, you will soon find there are more things to fill your mind than your ex. Good luck buddy
Bert Posted 28 September 2005 Posted 28 September 2005 Its so hard to move on ive tried but when i see her with this guy... If she's with another guy... it's clear that she has moved on, so maybe it's time for you to move on!! "Plenty more fish in te sea" Good luck with this though!
Lukeh Posted 28 September 2005 Author Posted 28 September 2005 If she's with another guy... it's clear that she has moved on, so maybe it's time for you to move on!! "Plenty more fish in te sea" Good luck with this though! Hard to believe that though when shes texting me she misses me and telling me over msn...
Gamesmaster Posted 28 September 2005 Posted 28 September 2005 The thing is i thinks shes going to find out about what happened with me and her best mate... did it happen before, during or after?
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