Foxhateram Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 i know this is sad doing this, but i really could do with some advice. Thing is there is a girl, i like her she likes me. but she has a friend, who is also my friend. our friend, lets call her X really likes me. Me and the girl i like lets call her Y dont want to hurt X. ok well that is part of it. ok but there is more Y has a freind who likes her lets call him Z. Z really likes her and has problems, he very often self harms. Me and Y were supposed to meet up today to discuss what was going to happen, but now were not because Y decided it was a bad idea incase we get spotted and someone tells X, or Z. Anyone got any good advice that could help me out. kinda feeling shit about it all cus its really confusing me and i dont know where i stand.
Zingari Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 alls fair in love and war ; its the only advice i can give
Fez of Mahrez Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 See, this is what happens when you let algebra teachers write Hollyoaks scripts.
Zingari Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 See, this is what happens when you let algebra teachers write Hollyoaks scripts.
Foxhateram Posted 15 October 2007 Author Posted 15 October 2007 Im fcking well confused. ha well if ure confused feel sorry for me bud, with this shite spinning in my head! while im trying to physics mock exams!!!! basicly il try and explain again haha . um girl likes me i like her, she has a friend that likes me we dont want to hurt her. the girl ok will names help? ok il start again. names arent correct to life ok Silvy likes me i like silvy. but silvy has a friend called roxie who likes me. silvy doesnt want to hurt Roxie by going out with me, and doesnt want to fall out with Roxie. Silvy also has a friend who likes her, his name is jonie, jonie has issues and self harms, silvy also doesnt want to hurt him, cus shes scared what he will do. me and silvy were meant to meet up today to make sure we know where we stand, but now were not cus she has backed out, cus shes afriad somone will see us and tell roxie or jonnie... any better?
James. Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 i know this is sad doing this, but i really could do with some advice. Thing is there is a girl, i like her she likes me. but she has a friend, who is also my friend. our friend, lets call her X really likes me. Me and the girl i like lets call her Y dont want to hurt X. ok well that is part of it. ok but there is more Y has a freind who likes her lets call him Z. Z really likes her and has problems, he very often self harms. Me and Y were supposed to meet up today to discuss what was going to happen, but now were not because Y decided it was a bad idea incase we get spotted and someone tells X, or Z. Anyone got any good advice that could help me out. kinda feeling shit about it all cus its really confusing me and i dont know where i stand. F**king hell chap. Right: You like Y Y likes you X likes you You and Y are friends with X Z likes Y You and Y are friends with Z The solution is that you and Y set up Z with X and then ride off into the susnet together. Seriously. That way everyone gets some action.
Foxhateram Posted 15 October 2007 Author Posted 15 October 2007 forget them all and have a night in with W.
Fez of Mahrez Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 but that is the thing, i dont like waiting to know what she wants to do. its tempting to just go and get pissed saturday night and wake up by some fit lass's side in her bed. but itd be nice to have something a lil more permanant for once hense why im waiting. but its all so argh!! confusing Actually I assumed W was you.
Foxhateram Posted 15 October 2007 Author Posted 15 October 2007 F**king hell chap.Right: You like Y Y likes you X likes you You and Y are friends with X Z likes Y You and Y are friends with Z The solution is that you and Y set up Z with X and then ride off into the susnet together. Seriously. That way everyone gets some action. haha id so love to see that happen, would sort it all out perfectly. cant see it happening though. good suggestion though "Actually I assumed W was you." oh i see what he meant now. see this is all driving me so insane i cant read properly. mmmm good idea
Zingari Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 Actually I assumed W was you. If W was you , then it would be 2 yous wouldn't it
David O'Leary Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 ha well if ure confused feel sorry for me bud, with this shite spinning in my head! while im trying to physics mock exams!!!!basicly il try and explain again haha . um girl likes me i like her, she has a friend that likes me we dont want to hurt her. the girl ok will names help? ok il start again. names arent correct to life ok Silvy likes me i like silvy. but silvy has a friend called roxie who likes me. silvy doesnt want to hurt Roxie by going out with me, and doesnt want to fall out with Roxie. Silvy also has a friend who likes her, his name is jonie, jonie has issues and self harms, silvy also doesnt want to hurt him, cus shes scared what he will do. me and silvy were meant to meet up today to make sure we know where we stand, but now were not cus she has backed out, cus shes afriad somone will see us and tell roxie or jonnie... any better? You're ****ed mate
Foxhateram Posted 15 October 2007 Author Posted 15 October 2007 You're ****ed mate i know. comon someone must be able to help. this is really getting to me now. couldnt have a more complcaited situation if i tried.
lookwhaticando Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 I hope they aren't the actual names of the people involved. For various reasons. Mostly because they'll be mad... but partly because... no, best not. Anyway... as someone before me has already stated, you're dicked. No matter what you do... it'll all end in tears. Unless, of course, you become a foursome. Essentially, a group of swingers. Full time, exclusive swingers. Even then Y/J/Jonie (whatever we're calling him now) might harm himself when he develops feelings for X/S/Silvy and/or W/You/foxhateram. Teenage relationships are a bad idea. Always. Too much drama. i know. comon someone must be able to help. this is really getting to me now. couldnt have a more complcaited situation if i tried. You say that now... but give it a couple of months, when you realize someone inadvertently blew their beans up X/Y's muff.
Wezleylowski Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 Solution Forget Silvy all you need is 1. An industrial sized barrel of KY jelly. 2. A box of tissues. 3. your right/ left hand. 4. A porno mag. Have yourself a riot. Seriously though Jonie needs to have a word with himself, self harming is the answer to nothing. Its also pretty childish that he would cut himself because he hasnt got his own way with Silvy. And if you ask me he is no freind of Silvys if he is willing to jeporodise Silvys happiness so he can keep trying to get with her. Perhaps a lady of the forum could help. They seem to be much better at these things than fella's.
Foxhateram Posted 15 October 2007 Author Posted 15 October 2007 SolutionForget Silvy all you need is 1. An industrial sized barrl of KY jelly. 2. A box of tissues. 3. your right/ left hand. 4. A porno mag. Have yourself a riot. Seriously though Jonie needs to have a word with himself, self harming is the answer to nothing. Its also pretty childish that he would cut himself because he hasnt got his own way with Silvy. And if you ask me he is no freind of Silvys if he is willing to jeporodise Silvys happiness so he can keep trying to get with her. Perhaps a lady of the forum could help. They seem to be much better at these things than fella's. Agree entirely. have no idea what to do but ah well. guess just let things happen.
Foxhateram Posted 15 October 2007 Author Posted 15 October 2007 Find a loner named Susan. Well i just told "Silvy" (not her real name) that there is no way were gonna be able to make it work, with all that shit as a consequence and therefore we should just remain mates and forget about it all. right decision?
Alexikokopops Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 Well i just told "Silvy" (not her real name) that there is no way were gonna be able to make it work, with all that shit as a consequence and therefore we should just remain mates and forget about it all. right decision? Should've listened to me.
MPH Posted 15 October 2007 Posted 15 October 2007 Well i just told "Silvy" (not her real name) that there is no way were gonna be able to make it work, with all that shit as a consequence and therefore we should just remain mates and forget about it all. right decision? wrong decision. You cant go by in life making all decisions based on what is best for other people. otherwise, whats the actual point in you being alive? Now dont get me wrong when i say that, but why is their happiness more important than yours? Or, why is it more 'decent' for you to be miserable and not the others involved? Right now, no one is happy. If you got together with her at least 2 people would be happy. and the other two would move on and eventually find feelings for someone else. Sure, they may be upset for a couple of weeks, but im 32 and quite frankly, i laugh now at how silly i was when i found out a girl i liked years ago liked my best friend. Sure, i was gutted back then, but people move on, time goes past, and i was on to the next girl. Now, i just laugh about it!
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