As Finners discussed above, Alan Wake 2 is utter wank (I can be more concise...although I did love Control). Graphics amazing but sounds like it was written by a GCSE student.
Baldur's Gate 3 is on my list of best games ever. Trouble with these lists is that if a game is a 100/100, but not your genre, you won't like it. BG3 is perhaps the best game of its type ever made. Fortunately it's a genre I love and I can't praise this game highly enough.
Spider Man 2. Really really enjoyed playing it. Only gripe I have with it is that it's more of the same from 1 and MM. Unfair to criticise that, but the original one was such a surprise that 2 didn't have that to help it along and make as strong an impression.
RE4. It's a remake, get it off the list. Not getting a nomination from me for porting an old game into a new engine.
Super Mario Bros Wonder is amazing. Very similar to what they did with Mario Odyssey where they put a new slant of an extremely familiar game (platforming Mario).
TOTK. How this isn't even in my thoughts for GOTY is more to do with the above games being so good. Not popular in some corners, but BOTW is my "desert island game". TOTK made everything about BOTW better, but similar to Spiderman, when it's more of the same it's not as punchy or memorable.
In order...
BG3
Super Mario
TOTK
Spider Man
RE4
Alan Wake 2
More I see that list, the more annoyed I am that Alan Wake is on it.
Will say though, what a brilliant year for games.
*edit* It was released last December so missed most of these lists, but Steam version of Dwarf Fortress is sensational!