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I reckon my old mans doing the dirty behind my old dears back :angry: , so of all places I'm seeking advice online! I have my suspicions because he's always txting, yet when I sometimes check his phone late at night, theres no txts in inbox or outbox, and he's started to go places and not saying where he's going, esp as I work in his office during uni hols. Theres definately scope for it. I also happened to look through his photos on his phone...found some pics of him another woman all cosy, and her trying on his City shirt....(I can see the amusing side to that...sort of :angry: )

It makes me physically sick, but what the **** should I do next!

btw I'm 20, quite trim and big, and could easily knock his block off...... :angry:

Joe.

Joe.

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I can imagine how hard it is for you to believe that something like this is happening.

I don't think you can do anything until you are absolutely certain something is going on.

BartonFox

BartonFox

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I reckon my old mans doing the dirty behind my old dears back :angry: , so of all places I'm seeking advice online! I have my suspicions because he's always txting, yet when I sometimes check his phone late at night, theres no txts in inbox or outbox, and he's started to go places and not saying where he's going, esp as I work in his office during uni hols. Theres definately scope for it. I also happened to look through his photos on his phone...found some pics of him another woman all cosy, and her trying on his City shirt....(I can see the amusing side to that...sort of :angry: )

It makes me physically sick, but what the **** should I do next!

btw I'm 20, quite trim and big, and could easily knock his block off...... :angry:

So you're jealous your old man is getting more action than you then :dunno:

Turtles Head

Turtles Head

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I reckon my old mans doing the dirty behind my old dears back :angry: , so of all places I'm seeking advice online! I have my suspicions because he's always txting, yet when I sometimes check his phone late at night, theres no txts in inbox or outbox, and he's started to go places and not saying where he's going, esp as I work in his office during uni hols. Theres definately scope for it. I also happened to look through his photos on his phone...found some pics of him another woman all cosy, and her trying on his City shirt....(I can see the amusing side to that...sort of :angry: )

It makes me physically sick, but what the **** should I do next!

btw I'm 20, quite trim and big, and could easily knock his block off...... :angry:

Jesus thats pretty rough on you mate. Must say it does look like you've confirmed your own worst thoughts.

Confront him about it, but not aggressively. Ring him, tell him you and him need to go for a drink for a talk. At least then you can get ready what you want to say, and not just end up blurting it out drunkenly to a relative.

Hope all goes well for ya

Wasyls Pec Deck

Wasyls Pec Deck

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Jesus thats pretty rough on you mate. Must say it does look like you've confirmed your own worst thoughts.

Confront him about it, but not aggressively. Ring him, tell him you and him need to go for a drink for a talk. At least then you can get ready what you want to say, and not just end up blurting it out drunkenly to a relative.

Hope all goes well for ya

Yea, it would be the hardest thing to do though, when I think about it even more...yea I'm 80%. Getting pissed and spurting its always a darn good second best mind :unsure:

Daggers

Daggers

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...what the **** should I do next!

btw I'm 20, quite trim and big

Sounds like the life of a gigolo is right up your street...not only will it keep you occupied but it should take your mind off the things that ail you.

Jon the Hat

Jon the Hat

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I reckon my old mans doing the dirty behind my old dears back :angry: , so of all places I'm seeking advice online! I have my suspicions because he's always txting, yet when I sometimes check his phone late at night, theres no txts in inbox or outbox, and he's started to go places and not saying where he's going, esp as I work in his office during uni hols. Theres definately scope for it. I also happened to look through his photos on his phone...found some pics of him another woman all cosy, and her trying on his City shirt....(I can see the amusing side to that...sort of :angry: )

It makes me physically sick, but what the **** should I do next!

btw I'm 20, quite trim and big, and could easily knock his block off...... :angry:

I would highly recommend staying well out of it. It is your parents relationship not yours, and while it isn't very nice it will probably all blow over. Many Many Many people have affairs, and a lot of the time their partners guess something is going on but choose to ignore it. If you stick your oar in (even in a well intentioned way) a) You might not like the response you get, and b) You might end up causing a result which is the opposite of what you want to achieve.

Go an get pissed and forget about it. :thumbup:

Geo V

Geo V

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People only seem to cheat when something is wrong in there relationship. Im not blaming your mum or anything but you do hear of couples in there 40s and 50s only staying together for the kids when really they should have seperated years ago, infact I know of two friends who have openly said they are only staying together until both there daughters get to Uni (a few years to go).

My advice would be to just ask your old man if he is playing around. It could be something innocent or it could be more but either way, I wouldnt go down the road of starting to knock him about as he and your mum might not get along anymore and its as simple as that.

It could also be that its all your fault for supporting City??? lol:thumbup:

Zingari

Zingari

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I reckon my old mans doing the dirty behind my old dears back :angry: , so of all places I'm seeking advice online! I have my suspicions because he's always txting, yet when I sometimes check his phone late at night, theres no txts in inbox or outbox, and he's started to go places and not saying where he's going, esp as I work in his office during uni hols. Theres definately scope for it. I also happened to look through his photos on his phone...found some pics of him another woman all cosy, and her trying on his City shirt....(I can see the amusing side to that...sort of :angry: )

It makes me physically sick, but what the **** should I do next!

btw I'm 20, quite trim and big, and could easily knock his block off...... :angry:

hard as it may be to you , i think the best thing is to keep your nose out of his business, as you no doubt would expect him to do yours ;

sorry, but even if he is cheating on your mother it still is not your business and you would not know the whole story and the reasons for it.

OriginalRobboFOX

OriginalRobboFOX

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**** it, admin can close it if you like...... :thumbup:

Jus have a chat with him out of the house see what he says..... I thought my dad was doin somethin he shouldn't behind my stepmums back once. Asked him and he explained he wasn't and it all made sense.... He can only say yay or nay.... Go for it....

Dr The Singh

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I have an idea, bit extreme!! Find out who he is having an affair with, and either:

1. Pull her, bone her and make sure you get video or camera footage as evidence for your dad to see

2. Threaten her to leave, if not baseball bat her

Like I said this would be a very extreme measure but no doubt helpful!!!

Zingari

Zingari

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I have an idea, bit extreme!! Find out who he is having an affair with, and either:

1. Pull her, bone her and make sure you get video or camera footage as evidence for your dad to see

2. Threaten her to leave, if not baseball bat her

Like I said this would be a very extreme measure but no doubt helpful!!!

ever thought about a career as an agony aunt/uncle :D

Thracian

Thracian

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hard as it may be to you , i think the best thing is to keep your nose out of his business, as you no doubt would expect him to do yours ;

sorry, but even if he is cheating on your mother it still is not your business and you would not know the whole story and the reasons for it.

I think that's closest to right. Don't judge.

People make so much misery for themselves by making rules for each other.

Life is rarely that simple.

People's needs, situations, philosophies are different.

Far easier to love people for what they are not what you want them to be.

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