Indeed, and I note your careful use of the word 'some' here.
Unfortunately, we're all subject to this sort of archaic thinking, and inevitably some women buy into it, and value noisy confidence over anything else. Also, in my experience, I have found one or two women confused by masculine emotional intelligence, because they've long considered that their department - in much the same way that some men are still wedded to the idea that their job is go out, hunt and gather