James. Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 Hey hey hey! I'm non judgmental. It's all about whether you can live with yourself afterwards, if MF thinks he can then that is up to him of course. Hey you're good at this aren't you. Wise and stuff. I wish I was a woman sometimes.
Guest Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 Hey you're good at this aren't you. Wise and stuff. I wish I was a woman sometimes. You could be. Evenings, weekends, whenever!
The People's Hero Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 Couple of years ago at a party, we got it on in the shower upstairs. Someone walked in and caught us. She was with her current boyfriend at the time. He still doesn't know about it. He doesn't know anything actually. And here we are again. There are a few bizarre coincedences here. I was about to say our situations are very similar then I realised that a) I don't have a girlfriend and b) 'girl' doesn't actually seem interested in me. Bit still, I can totally associate with keep coming back to the same girl... Do you ever wonder whether you are really attracted to her or whether there is an aspect of challenge/wanting what you can't have/one that got away/previous fantasy fulfillment about it?
The People's Hero Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 It's clearly a lust thing and I doubt there is much potential for anything longer term and more meaningful than that. In other words you'll struggle to move on with life and your longer term Mrs unless you have a cheeky night with this other girl.For the good of everyone concerned you should probably get the job done this weekend and then agree to both go back to your respective partners and not do it again. I doubt Katy will approve of this course of action. This is EXACTLY the sort of stuff I want to hear.
Katy Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 Hey you're good at this aren't you. Wise and stuff. I wish I was a woman sometimes. I've already advised Zingari what to do about being a woman, it's there if you want it
Guest Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 There are a few bizarre coincedences here.I was about to say our situations are very similar then I realised that a) I don't have a girlfriend and b) 'girl' doesn't actually seem interested in me. Bit still, I can totally associate with keep coming back to the same girl... Do you ever wonder whether you are really attracted to her or whether there is an aspect of challenge/wanting what you can't have/one that got away/previous fantasy fulfillment about it? It'll be both. And you can move on with your life, and things can be hunky dory, but there will always be that "what if" even years later. So I have been told. It's really funny how things work out!!
Master Fox Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 It's clearly a lust thing and I doubt there is much potential for anything longer term and more meaningful than that. In other words you'll struggle to move on with life and your longer term Mrs unless you have a cheeky night with this other girl.For the good of everyone concerned you should probably get the job done this weekend and then agree to both go back to your respective partners and not do it again. I doubt Katy will approve of this course of action. Thanks for the adivce. I think you're right about everything. We should have a beer or two some day James. But, having this awful cold i might be so terrible she may never want to see me again. I'm going home for the day to ponder my next move. Peace out.
The People's Hero Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 It'll be both. And you can move on with your life, and things can be hunky dory, but there will always be that "what if" even years later. So I have been told.It's really funny how things work out!! She should just leave her really nice and convenient fella who's doing quite well for herself to come and have some fun with me. I really don't see why she wouldn't? I mean, for god's sakes, I won some FT AWARDS last year... SOME FT AWARDS FOR GOD'S SAKE. WHAT MORE DOES THIS WOMAN WANT?
Katy Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 She should just leave her really nice and convenient fella who's doing quite well for herself to come and have some fun with me.I really don't see why she wouldn't? I mean, for god's sakes, I won some FT AWARDS last year... SOME FT AWARDS FOR GOD'S SAKE. WHAT MORE DOES THIS WOMAN WANT? She wants the moon a stick mate.
Guest Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 She should just leave her really nice and convenient fella who's doing quite well for herself to come and have some fun with me.I really don't see why she wouldn't? I mean, for god's sakes, I won some FT AWARDS last year... SOME FT AWARDS FOR GOD'S SAKE. WHAT MORE DOES THIS WOMAN WANT? At least he's competition! How would you feel if some bloke (bird in your case) decided to stick with a fat, ugly, socially inept, mealy mouthed, bitch (or bloke in your case)?
James. Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 We should have a beer or two some day James. We've had a couple of near misses but you're on my list of people I still need to meet off here! One day MF, one day. Have a good weekend.
Master Fox Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 We've had a couple of near misses but you're on my list of people I still need to meet off here! One day MF, one day. Have a good weekend. Yeah definitely mate Have a good weekend
Katy Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 At least he's competition! How would you feel if some bloke (bird in your case) decided to stick with a fat, ugly, socially inept, mealy mouthed, bitch (or bloke in your case)?
The People's Hero Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 At least he's competition! How would you feel if some bloke (bird in your case) decided to stick with a fat, ugly, socially inept, mealy mouthed, bitch (or bloke in your case)? To put it in to perspective, one of my exes (who left me when she became a teacher because she thought she was destined for great things and that my ambition couldn't match hers! HAHAHAHA) is now dating a gypsy. Not just any gypsy. An ugly junkie gypsy. I look on that with some amusement, but if I was able to laugh at myself so readily, I might take that quite badly! Also, I don't know if this fella is any good or not (in the case of current 'girl') - I'm just assuming so to make myself feel better about losing out.
Alexikokopops Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 We've had a couple of near misses but you're on my list of people I still need to meet off here! One day MF, one day. Have a good weekend. Yeah definitely mate Have a good weekend I still remember our fateful meeting at Chelsea away. I'm not sure if TPH does though. He can't remember much from that evening.
Guest Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 Well she was!! To put it in to perspective, one of my exes (who left me when she became a teacher because she thought she was destined for great things and that my ambition couldn't match hers! HAHAHAHA) is now dating a gypsy. Not just any gypsy. An ugly junkie gypsy.I look on that with some amusement, but if I was able to laugh at myself so readily, I might take that quite badly! Also, I don't know if this fella is any good or not (in the case of current 'girl') - I'm just assuming so to make myself feel better about losing out. I must admit, I find those kind of things amusing. I always picture Jim Bowen standing there, shaking his head saying "look at what you could have had". But then again, I do have an overactive imagination. The way I see it, if it's meant to be, it will happen. If not, then you move on and find the next person. Hope it all works out for you.
Katy Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 Well she was!!I must admit, I find those kind of things amusing. I always picture Jim Bowen standing there, shaking his head saying "look at what you could have had". But then again, I do have an overactive imagination. The way I see it, if it's meant to be, it will happen. If not, then you move on and find the next person. Hope it all works out for you. Who on earth are you referring to Lease?
Guest Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 Who on earth are you referring to Lease? Nobody you would know. This is from years and years and years ago.
Tilley Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 LD3, Is baked beans on toasted muffins a wise choice for lunch? Yours truly, Tilley(o)
lildave3 Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 LD3,Is baked beans on toasted muffins a wise choice for lunch? Yours truly, Tilley(o) Dear Tilleyo, No, get yourself some bacon.
The People's Hero Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 I just need to either get with this current one or get her out of my head. To do that I either need to succeed with her or fail horribly miserably, to draw a line under it. It's not as if there are a huge amounts of potentially distracting nice women banging down my door - just ropey ones that I've stupidly gone after in the past. I'm a lost cause guys.
Tilley Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 I just need to either get with this current one or get her out of my head.To do that I either need to succeed with her or fail horribly miserably, to draw a line under it. It's not as if there are a huge amounts of potentially distracting nice women banging down my door - just ropey ones that I've stupidly gone after in the past. I'm a lost cause guys. Go round her house, wearing nothing but a bow tie. You will know where you stand & more to the point, if your gonna get yourself some.
Katy Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 I just need to either get with this current one or get her out of my head.To do that I either need to succeed with her or fail horribly miserably, to draw a line under it. It's not as if there are a huge amounts of potentially distracting nice women banging down my door - just ropey ones that I've stupidly gone after in the past. I'm a lost cause guys. Grrrr, was our MSN convo a pointless waste of time last night then?
Alexikokopops Posted 28 November 2008 Posted 28 November 2008 I just need to either get with this current one or get her out of my head.To do that I either need to succeed with her or fail horribly miserably, to draw a line under it. It's not as if there are a huge amounts of potentially distracting nice women banging down my door - just ropey ones that I've stupidly gone after in the past. I'm a lost cause guys. We can find you a nice girl this weekend. Failing that we can go out in Soho and find you a nice boy.
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