The Year Of The Fox Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 I'm currently questioning anything and everything I've done over the past 10 years of my life! After working at a uni today I have to say I seem to massively regret not going, I still don't like the stereotypical student type nor their nicey nice attitude to everything (I know all aren't like that) I'm even very happy in my current job. I would've just loved to have (attempted) to have sown many more seeds, especially if they looked like many of them did today! I left school 10 years ago, and have been single for maybe two of those 10! I'm even questioning my current missis and the fact we have a mortgage together! I'd almost go as far to say that its bloody depressing me big time! I've a missis who is fit as, loves me to bits for some reason despite me honestly, though embarassingly love football more than her. I'm just not bothered! Is this a midlife crisis or does everyone my age have regrets like this? My mate said I should remember what I have got, which a lot would give their left arm for, but when I don't think I inexplicably love her its quite hard to appreciate what I do have!! I know time goes quickly but I think I've always put it to the back of my mind about how quickly it goes! You know its pretty desperate when the only thing you look forward to is the Leicester games (especially given the last few months!) In all honesty my dad is very ill and I'm wondering whether I'm questioning whether I'm just wasting my life being literally bored because of this. I haven't a clue how I'm going to cope in the summer! And yes before anyone says, I am in big trouble if I'm already halfway through my life! Sorry about the lack of paragraphs, FT won't let me use my Enter button still!
The Year Of The Fox Posted 30 April 2013 Author Posted 30 April 2013 Man up Maybe this is the answer !
Trav Le Bleu Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 Left school 10 years ago and having a mid-life crisis? Blimey! Way to go!
The Year Of The Fox Posted 30 April 2013 Author Posted 30 April 2013 Left school 10 years ago and having a mid-life crisis? Blimey! Way to go! Tell me about it! Hence the question mark in the title! And the question about whether everyone felt like this at my age!
MooseBreath Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 Assuming you're mid-late 20s? Bit early for a mid-life crisis, bit late for a quarter life crisis. I have no idea what you're suffering, but my Mrs is a bit of a tosser too so we've got that in common.
The Year Of The Fox Posted 30 April 2013 Author Posted 30 April 2013 Assuming you're mid-late 20s? Bit early for a mid-life crisis, bit late for a quarter life crisis. I have no idea what you're suffering, but my Mrs is a bit of a tosser too so we've got that in common. She's brilliant that's the thing. I do what I want when I want. Ok she grumbles a bitbut she knows I'll only do it anyway. My football trips are at the expense of our holidays! Surely if I was with someone I wanted to be with I'd be happy missing footy to go on a holiday with her?! We have **** all in common though I've been putting more of an effort in recently, but its a chore!
Captain... Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 Part of the problem is as beings of nature we are not supposed to be monogamous (nor have soul crushing jobs and taxes) everyone at some point questions why they are in a monogamous relationship, and questions the value of it, the point of it, they also start to see their partner as the reason why they aren't having the life they think they should have and tend to over glamourise the lives they see others having (the media doesn't help in this department), in reality your single mates who go out and get pissed all the time and spend all weekend in front of Sky Sports and can do what they want, probably want nothing more than a companion someone to share things with. So my advice is this: If you think she is stopping you living the life you want, go out and live the life you want, see if it makes you any happier, and stop using her as an excuse, the reason you are not at a full moon party in Thailand right now off your tits and surrounded by fanny is down to you and nobody else (that and it's not a full moon, but you get the point). If you feel you haven't had enough sexual partners then just think what you would have got if you had more sexual partners, how your life would be different if you had 50 notches on your bedpost rather than 5, think of every long lasting life lesson you learnt from each one night stand, I bet the only difference would be a few more stories to tell down the pub (and a couple of STDs). If you want more of a sex life get down to Anne Summers and buy her something kinky, but start small, pulling out a 24" double ended dildo is probably not the place to start. If you just can't bear to look at her any more and would prefer to watch 22 sweaty men in tight shorts running around, then you should probably reconsider your lifestyle choice...
The Year Of The Fox Posted 30 April 2013 Author Posted 30 April 2013 Part of the problem is as beings of nature we are not supposed to be monogamous (nor have soul crushing jobs and taxes) everyone at some point questions why they are in a monogamous relationship, and questions the value of it, the point of it, they also start to see their partner as the reason why they aren't having the life they think they should have and tend to over glamourise the lives they see others having (the media doesn't help in this department), in reality your single mates who go out and get pissed all the time and spend all weekend in front of Sky Sports and can do what they want, probably want nothing more than a companion someone to share things with. So my advice is this: If you think she is stopping you living the life you want, go out and live the life you want, see if it makes you any happier, and stop using her as an excuse, the reason you are not at a full moon party in Thailand right now off your tits and surrounded by fanny is down to you and nobody else (that and it's not a full moon, but you get the point). If you feel you haven't had enough sexual partners then just think what you would have got if you had more sexual partners, how your life would be different if you had 50 notches on your bedpost rather than 5, think of every long lasting life lesson you learnt from each one night stand, I bet the only difference would be a few more stories to tell down the pub (and a couple of STDs). If you want more of a sex life get down to Anne Summers and buy her something kinky, but start small, pulling out a 24" double ended dildo is probably not the place to start. If you just can't bear to look at her any more and would prefer to watch 22 sweaty men in tight shorts running around, then you should probably reconsider your lifestyle choice... Again, as she works alternate weekends I have plenty of time in front of the TV doing the Super Sunday thing! The majority of my mates are all tied down to some extent though most only rent. I don't have a massive desire to be like them, as we all do the same thing on a Saturday (or Friday night as it's been) I just wonder how life could've been so different, and almost definitely better if I'd played my card right all those years ago! (ie a different bird!)
Captain... Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 Again, as she works alternate weekends I have plenty of time in front of the TV doing the Super Sunday thing! The majority of my mates are all tied down to some extent though most only rent. I don't have a massive desire to be like them, as we all do the same thing on a Saturday (or Friday night as it's been) I just wonder how life could've been so different, and almost definitely better if I'd played my card right all those years ago! (ie a different bird!) How would this different bird be better? What would she have that your missus doesn't?
The Year Of The Fox Posted 30 April 2013 Author Posted 30 April 2013 How would this different bird be better? What would she have that your missus doesn't? A much better job, stimulating conversation, she can drive, she's more intelligent than I, and I had the biggest crush on her 10 years ago . TBJS is here now, this should be fun!
kyleolly Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 Well my misses has just been taken into hospital with severe depression so think yourself lucky mate!
Vacamion Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 I'm currently questioning anything and everything I've done over the past 10 years of my life! After working at a uni today I have to say I seem to massively regret not going, I still don't like the stereotypical student type nor their nicey nice attitude to everything (I know all aren't like that) I'm even very happy in my current job. I would've just loved to have (attempted) to have sown many more seeds, especially if they looked like many of them did today! I left school 10 years ago, and have been single for maybe two of those 10! I'm even questioning my current missis and the fact we have a mortgage together! I'd almost go as far to say that its bloody depressing me big time! I've a missis who is fit as, loves me to bits for some reason despite me honestly, though embarassingly love football more than her. I'm just not bothered! Is this a midlife crisis or does everyone my age have regrets like this? My mate said I should remember what I have got, which a lot would give their left arm for, but when I don't think I inexplicably love her its quite hard to appreciate what I do have!! I know time goes quickly but I think I've always put it to the back of my mind about how quickly it goes! You know its pretty desperate when the only thing you look forward to is the Leicester games (especially given the last few months!) In all honesty my dad is very ill and I'm wondering whether I'm questioning whether I'm just wasting my life being literally bored because of this. I haven't a clue how I'm going to cope in the summer! And yes before anyone says, I am in big trouble if I'm already halfway through my life! Sorry about the lack of paragraphs, FT won't let me use my Enter button still! It's as if cocaine and hookers had never been invented.
The Year Of The Fox Posted 30 April 2013 Author Posted 30 April 2013 Well my misses has just been taken into hospital with severe depression so think yourself lucky mate! I know I should feel incredibly lucky. I don't though. Sorry to hear about her.
THEBIGJOHNSTEADER; Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 Think those thoughts are just a normal part of growing up and most share them. Also, I've started having dreams about farting on other men. Anyone know what it means?
Dr The Singh Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 Think those thoughts are just a normal part of growing up and most share them. Also, I've started having dreams about farting on other men. Anyone know what it means? Your turning religious!!
Captain... Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 A much better job, stimulating conversation, she can drive, she's more intelligent than I, and I had the biggest crush on her 10 years ago . TBJS is here now, this should be fun! A good job, intelligent, stimulating conversation, the ability to drive, sounds like a man to me... But seriously what does it matter what job she has? unless she is a stripper or a politician, eurgh! Or do you want her to have more money and stop sponging off you? Intelligent and stimulating conversation surely you get all that on here, what more do you need, have you tried taking an interest in what she likes or found something you can enjoy together a hobby or sport that you can both do and share an interest in, sounds like she is never going to be interested in football, and I'm guessing you're not interested in woman things like shoes and periods. As for her being able to drive, have you tried getting her some lessons?
THEBIGJOHNSTEADER; Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 Has anyone else started eating dog crap lately? I was in the park the other day and I picked some off the floor and got the urge to snack on the end of a piece. So i did. Now I'm looking at breeding long haired dogs just for the clinkers (crusty shit that clings to the hair around the anus). I want to collect them in a jar and neck them with water, I think it will make me feel good. Is this normal?
The Year Of The Fox Posted 30 April 2013 Author Posted 30 April 2013 A good job, intelligent, stimulating conversation, the ability to drive, sounds like a man to me... But seriously what does it matter what job she has? unless she is a stripper or a politician, eurgh! Or do you want her to have more money and stop sponging off you? Intelligent and stimulating conversation surely you get all that on here, what more do you need, have you tried taking an interest in what she likes or found something you can enjoy together a hobby or sport that you can both do and share an interest in, sounds like she is never going to be interested in football, and I'm guessing you're not interested in woman things like shoes and periods. As for her being able to drive, have you tried getting her some lessons? She has no interest in sport whatsoever! We went for a bike ride the other day though. We went out for a few drinks the other night and it was boring as hell. She has nothing to say. She doesn't sponge off me though. Tried to get her through her test before buying the house, she failed four times and just can't afford to pay for them at the mo. In fairness its perhaps for the good of mankind and other road users
Captain... Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 She has no interest in sport whatsoever! We went for a bike ride the other day though. We went out for a few drinks the other night and it was boring as hell. She has nothing to say. She doesn't sponge off me though. Tried to get her through her test before buying the house, she failed four times and just can't afford to pay for them at the mo. In fairness its perhaps for the good of mankind and other road users Ah you are that point in your relationship, it's not a midlife crisis it is time to have kids, it's what you do when the conversation dries up.
James. Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 You're being pretty harsh about her. Sounds to me like she could do better to be honest. Why are you with her?
The Year Of The Fox Posted 30 April 2013 Author Posted 30 April 2013 Ah you are that point in your relationship, it's not a midlife crisis it is time to have kids, it's what you do when the conversation dries up. Again,I don't want kids, neither does she, she wants to get married first
The Year Of The Fox Posted 30 April 2013 Author Posted 30 April 2013 You're being pretty harsh about her. Sounds to me like she could do better to be honest. Why are you with her? Seriously wondering that myself now! Like I say she's great. Probably way out my league in looks, she's got the patience of a saint with me and will usually do anything for me. But that's about it. No other connection.
THEBIGJOHNSTEADER; Posted 30 April 2013 Posted 30 April 2013 Can I ask you something? Does she suck a mean cock?
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