Dilema

[Raj]

ok same girl as before.

Latly we have become really close again, so i try to avoid her for a bit, but last night she started chatting to me on MSN, she asked why i was ignoring her, and i explained that i felt myself getting closer to her then i wanted again, as we have both agreed itl never work with all the complications as explained in my confusion thread a few months back.

im really confused because i dont want to keep on talking to her everday txting her every night, even thow shes only just logged off MSN, (she txts me first most the time) i dont want that to keep hapening because i know il just end up falling back into where we were before and that just caused arguments and a lot of shit. It also resulted in me losing her even as a mate.

basicly what do i do? how am i supposed to prevent myself from falling for her again, without upsetting ehr and avoiding her.

Tell her you are gay.

She fcuks off.

You fcuk off.

end of.

sorted.

[Bert]

Funny that, cus thats exactly what i did haha. shel be in a pissy with me tomorow!!! ah well

its kl.

Let her, she's blatantly playing games, so call her bluff. She'll be huffing and puffing, just to get attention from you, and soon she'll get bored.

If you play into her hands, she'll do it time and time again.

[Raj]

Let her, she's blatantly playing games, so call her bluff. She'll be huffing and puffing, just to get attention from you, and soon she'll get bored.

If you cum into her hands, she'll do it time and time again.

[Foxhateram]

Let her, she's blatantly playing games, so call her bluff. She'll be huffing and puffing, just to get attention from you, and soon she'll get bored.

If you play into her hands, she'll do it time and time again.

god damnit i hate games. i dont want to play along. i just want to be mates with her without feeling more for her. is that to much to ask haha. oh well

was quite satisfying earlier, i kinda ignored her a bit, and she was like desperatly trying to start a convo. damit i hate games.

[BigGibbo]

[AoWW]

ok just to infrom you all. i talked to her and told her why is was avoiding her etc. she kinda understood. i then told ehr to tell me that she aint interested and never will be, just to put my mind at rest. She sed it but she dint mean it but never mind. so yer alls kl, were still talking.

and she ended the convo with "dont be so pessimistic you never used to be. you used to be so flirty and funny and up for a laugh, now you never talk anymore, and ther eis always somit up. Night xxxx"

so no idea what that means haha. but never mind all sorted.

She's stringing you along and trying to provoke a reaction - as your following posts after this one have proved. Don't be a muppet over her. It's sounds like it's all getting very calculating - keep a low profile and she'll get bored. In fairness to her, it probably stems from insecurity, but that doesn't mean you need to play along too.

She's got the arse with you.

Girls always make a snappy, exit, with just "night" when they have the ump. Trust me.

Tis true. I do that.

[Rt Hon Percy Longprong]

I once knew a gal who drank copious amounts of gin

This made her stare in a most startling way

In fact most of the time she was wide eyed and legless

Poor liitle thing

On a serious note though old boy ,i'm absolutely astounded that the contributors on this Forum can be bothered with you or your pathetic little "problem"

Attention seeking is an understatement !

[BigGibbo]

I once knew a gal who drank copious amounts of gin

This made her stare in a most startling way

In fact most of the time she was wide eyed and legless

Poor liitle thing

On a serious note though old boy ,i'm absolutely astounded that the contributors on this Forum can be bothered with you or your pathetic little "problem"

Attention seeking is an understatement !

I knew a Girl similar to this except she was wide legged & eyeless

Oh & he's only a kid don't be harsh to the confused young soul!

[Master Fox]

He thought he had a pube until he pissed out of it!!!!

Yep.

[Foxhateram]

I once knew a gal who drank copious amounts of gin

This made her stare in a most startling way

In fact most of the time she was wide eyed and legless

Poor liitle thing

On a serious note though old boy ,i'm absolutely astounded that the contributors on this Forum can be bothered with you or your pathetic little "problem"

Attention seeking is an understatement !

i think you will find if i was attention seeking my original would have been far more, in the region of being very upset. instead i asked for simple advice from some very nice people, some of whom know what they are tlaking about, and have been there and done it before. is that really such a problem? i am amased by your ignorance.

i asked simple question, i get a decent answer from some very kind people, it helps me sort out the situation is that such a crime?

not only that the people on here always put a humerous and positive spin on things which helps alot!

Thankyou to everyone who participated.

[Rt Hon Percy Longprong]

i think you will find if i was attention seeking my original would have been far more, in the region of being very upset. instead i asked for simple advice from some very nice people, some of whom know what they are tlaking about, and have been there and done it before. is that really such a problem? i am amased by your ignorance.

i asked simple question, i get a decent answer from some very kind people, it helps me sort out the situation is that such a crime?

not only that the people on here always put a humerous and positive spin on things which helps alot!

Thankyou to everyone who participated.

AMEN !

[Daggers]

I once knew a gal who drank copious amounts of gin

This made her stare in a most startling way

In fact most of the time she was wide eyed and legless

Poor liitle thing

That is one motherfucker of a shit poem.

On a serious note though old boy ,i'm absolutely astounded that the contributors on this Forum can be bothered with you or your pathetic little "problem"

Attention seeking is an understatement !

Pot...kettle...hmmm.... <strokes chin>

[The People's Hero]

Mate, you need to ditch this girl, bigtime.

[Daggers]

Mate, you need to ditch this girl, bigtime.

What? Bin Mrs.D?

Hang on a minute...I am begining to like your thinking. Ditch her for a life of fast cars and loose women.

Damn it - I'm in!

[LeeCovFox]

Mate I started a similar topic not so long back (Women, whats their problem?) and to be honest I appreciated the pi55 taking more than the advice given (although this was also appreciated!), as in truth, it made light of a situation which was only as big as I allowed it to be in my own mind. That particular issue is, well, no longer an issue, and thats because I made my own decision on the matter, based upon what I thought would be better for me in the long term. I feel a lot better for doing so too. Ignore those who slag you off for asking for advice. Those who claim to know it all are often those who are crippled by their own insecurities anyway, and too afraid of looking vulnerable to ask of others for advice. Being able to do so is, in my opinion, indicative of your maturity in that you a aware of your own limitations as a person. Never be too proud to ask for help, whatever the issue. I didn't ultimately make my own decision based on the advice I was given on FoxesTalk, but the step I took wasn't a million miles away from some of the suggestions made on here. I feel no shame in haveing asked for advice, and wouldn't hesitate to do so again. Neither should you. Life in itself is a lesson. Use all the resources available to you in order to learn more as you go along, and ignore the scorn which others may pour upon you on the way.

[Rt Hon Percy Longprong]

Mate I started a similar topic not so long back (Women, whats their problem?) and to be honest I appreciated the pi55 taking more than the advice given (although this was also appreciated!), as in truth, it made light of a situation which was only as big as I allowed it to be in my own mind. That particular issue is, well, no longer an issue, and thats because I made my own decision on the matter, based upon what I thought would be better for me in the long term. I feel a lot better for doing so too. Ignore those who slag you off for asking for advice. Those who claim to know it all are often those who are crippled by their own insecurities anyway, and too afraid of looking vulnerable to ask of others for advice. Being able to do so is, in my opinion, indicative of your maturity in that you a aware of your own limitations as a person. Never be too proud to ask for help, whatever the issue. I didn't ultimately make my own decision based on the advice I was given on FoxesTalk, but the step I took wasn't a million miles away from some of the suggestions made on here. I feel no shame in haveing asked for advice, and wouldn't hesitate to do so again. Neither should you. Life in itself is a lesson. Use all the resources available to you in order to learn more as you go along, and ignore the scorn which others may pour upon you on the way.

By Jove Sir

It's the call of the cloth for you don't you know ?

[LeeCovFox]

I applied for such a job. But my application failed. I think this is because I refused to tick the box labelled "willing to touch children 'inappropriately'"

[Rt Hon Percy Longprong]

That is one motherfucker of a shit poem.

Pot...kettle...hmmm.... <strokes chin>

Sorry you feel this way Daggers old chap

I bow down to a far more experieced "poster"

[Foxhateram]

Mate I started a similar topic not so long back (Women, whats their problem?) and to be honest I appreciated the pi55 taking more than the advice given (although this was also appreciated!), as in truth, it made light of a situation which was only as big as I allowed it to be in my own mind. That particular issue is, well, no longer an issue, and thats because I made my own decision on the matter, based upon what I thought would be better for me in the long term. I feel a lot better for doing so too. Ignore those who slag you off for asking for advice. Those who claim to know it all are often those who are crippled by their own insecurities anyway, and too afraid of looking vulnerable to ask of others for advice. Being able to do so is, in my opinion, indicative of your maturity in that you a aware of your own limitations as a person. Never be too proud to ask for help, whatever the issue. I didn't ultimately make my own decision based on the advice I was given on FoxesTalk, but the step I took wasn't a million miles away from some of the suggestions made on here. I feel no shame in haveing asked for advice, and wouldn't hesitate to do so again. Neither should you. Life in itself is a lesson. Use all the resources available to you in order to learn more as you go along, and ignore the scorn which others may pour upon you on the way.

Thankyou kind sir, i agree with what you say. I used to be very cagey with my problems but i found it got me no where. I came on here once when i didnt know where else to go, and i found that the people on here are awsome,and their humour is unique. They also helped me through that situation.

i thank them for that, and tbh i couldnt give a damn what people think of me.