Foxhateram Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 ok same girl as before. Latly we have become really close again, so i try to avoid her for a bit, but last night she started chatting to me on MSN, she asked why i was ignoring her, and i explained that i felt myself getting closer to her then i wanted again, as we have both agreed itl never work with all the complications as explained in my confusion thread a few months back. im really confused because i dont want to keep on talking to her everday txting her every night, even thow shes only just logged off MSN, (she txts me first most the time) i dont want that to keep hapening because i know il just end up falling back into where we were before and that just caused arguments and a lot of shit. It also resulted in me losing her even as a mate. basicly what do i do? how am i supposed to prevent myself from falling for her again, without upsetting ehr and avoiding her.
Manwell Pablo Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 Ask Derdrie column in the sun, that bitch knows everything about "relationships" Actually your storys a bit tame for her....... sleep with her mum then write to Derdrie.
Uncle Albert Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 Ask Derdrie column in the sun, that bitch knows everything about "relationships"Actually your storys a bit tame for her....... sleep with her mum then write to Derdrie. You forgot to put and you have got her sister pregnant.
Foxhateram Posted 15 January 2008 Author Posted 15 January 2008 Ask Derdrie column in the sun, that bitch knows everything about "relationships"Actually your storys a bit tame for her....... sleep with her mum then write to Derdrie. haha, her mum aint that bad looking actualy she works at the college i go to aswell seriously though, needing help on the dilema
Foxhateram Posted 15 January 2008 Author Posted 15 January 2008 You forgot to put and you have got her sister pregnant. uh oh, no her sister hates me never did anything to her!! i could probs arrange that thow shes hot too. seriously thow needing help on the actual dilema
Ric Flair Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 haha, her mum aint that bad looking actualy she works at the college i go to aswell seriously though, needing help on the dilema Hit her full ball in the face with a battered sausage, if she continues to text you and speak to you on MSN, then you know you've got a good'un. If she finds your actions offensive then tell her to bollocks.
James. Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 My only advice is that you need to learn to sort out your own problems and learn from your mistakes instead of looking for sanctuary on an internet forum. That said, if you want my honest opinion on your "dilemna" you should just bloody speak to the girl and get everything out in the open. Just sort it once and for all. (and shag her Mum)
Master Fox Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 Is this the Derby fan girl ..? Look, just keep doing her until you find someone else. Job done. Next.
The People's Hero Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 Just tell the girl how you feel, ask how she feels, make a decision in your own mind then move on. If she doesn't want to be with you, tell everyone you slept with her and it was sh it anyway.
Foxhateram Posted 15 January 2008 Author Posted 15 January 2008 Is this the Derby fan girl ..? Look, to keep doing her until you find someone else. Job done. Next. no this isnt the derby fan girl thing. if it were i would have posted it in that thread tehe. And to the guy who told me to sort out my own problems, well im only asking for some other people's opinions on the situation. anyway yer i treid talking about it, but it just makes things really complicated like.
Dr The Singh Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 haha, her mum aint that bad looking actualy she works at the college i go to aswell seriously though, needing help on the dilema I don't get it. either you want her or you don't. If you do, tell her and get on with it, if she isn't interested, move on, and tell her that you can't be friends because you want more!!! If you don't want her tell her, and move on and tell her you fancy someone else!!
Foxhateram Posted 15 January 2008 Author Posted 15 January 2008 I don't get it. either you want her or you don't. If you do, tell her and get on with it, if she isn't interested, move on, and tell her that you can't be friends because you want more!!! If you don't want her tell her, and move on and tell her you fancy someone else!! I want her, but it wont work cus there is shite loads of stuff in the way. as said in the confusion thread a few months back. Therefore at the time we both decided it cant happen because of other people. I still like her ALOT but i know that shel say the same as before and therefore i want to try and detach from her a bit, but how to do that? is the complicated bit.
Trav Le Bleu Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 My only advice is that you need to learn to sort out your own problems and learn from your mistakes instead of looking for sanctuary on an internet forum.That said, if you want my honest opinion on your "dilemna" you should just bloody speak to the girl and get everything out in the open. Just sort it once and for all. (and shag her Mum) Amen cross-channel brother! (Though the sleeping with her mum bit... then her sister AND her dad will hate you!) <_< PS I'm not French PPS What's Hungarian for "the Blue" and how do I change my forum name? PPPS Though I did go to Paris once!
Manwell Pablo Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 As a testiment to this thread I might actually let you lot decide how I live my life for like a week. Every big decision I have to make shall be put to a pol, that would be quite amusing. (DISCLAIMER: I'm not actually going to do it)
Dr The Singh Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 I want her, but it wont work cus there is shite loads of stuff in the way. as said in the confusion thread a few months back. Therefore at the time we both decided it cant happen because of other people. I still like her ALOT but i know that shel say the same as before and therefore i want to try and detach from her a bit, but how to do that? is the complicated bit. Why don't you two give it a go, 'undercover', keep your relationship to yourselves, and if you get seen together, just tell people your friends!! When the dust settles, come out.....it may work!!!
Trav Le Bleu Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 Is this the Derby fan girl ..? Look, just keep doing her until you find someone else. Job done. Next. no this isnt the derby fan girl thing. if it were i would have posted it in that thread tehe. And to the guy who told me to sort out my own problems, well im only asking for some other people's opinions on the situation. anyway yer i treid talking about it, but it just makes things really complicated like. Yah, the Derby fan thing is MPH's little conundrum
Master Fox Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 (Sorry wrong quote) no this isnt the derby fan girl thing. if it were i would have posted it in that thread tehe. And to the guy who told me to sort out my own problems, well im only asking for some other people's opinions on the situation. anyway yer i treid talking about it, but it just makes things really complicated like. Whatever. Even if you don't want her as a full time girlfriend, just keep shagging her until you find someone you like better. But if she tells you that she wants more of a proper relationship, or tells you to piss off then you lose nothing either way. It's pretty simple. Stop being a bender!
Dr The Singh Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 (Sorry wrong quote) Whatever. Even if you don't want her as a full time girlfriend, just keep shagging her until you find someone you like better. But if she tells you that she wants more of a proper relationship, or tells you to piss off then you lose nothing either way. It's pretty simple. Stop being a bender! I would listen to Master Fox, he's seen a women naked in the flesh, not just on TV!!!
James. Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 Amen cross-channel brother! (Though the sleeping with her mum bit... then her sister AND her dad will hate you!) <_< PS I'm not French PPS What's Hungarian for "the Blue" and how do I change my forum name? PPPS Though I did go to Paris once! Bonjour mon frere Francais... Go to the User Help section and request your name change in the sticky topic there. If you Google "Hungarian translation" there'll be a free site somewhere to do it for you.
Head Honcho Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 ok same girl as before.Latly we have become really close again, so i try to avoid her for a bit, but last night she started chatting to me on MSN, she asked why i was ignoring her, and i explained that i felt myself getting closer to her then i wanted again, as we have both agreed itl never work with all the complications as explained in my confusion thread a few months back. im really confused because i dont want to keep on talking to her everday txting her every night, even thow shes only just logged off MSN, (she txts me first most the time) i dont want that to keep hapening because i know il just end up falling back into where we were before and that just caused arguments and a lot of shit. It also resulted in me losing her even as a mate. basicly what do i do? how am i supposed to prevent myself from falling for her again, without upsetting ehr and avoiding her. Pretend you're GAY she'll love ya ...............or you could always get yourself another girl, this time not a cockteaser!
Master Fox Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 I would listen to Master Fox, he's seen a women naked in the flesh, not just on TV!!! Yes, i buy the sun newpaper to look at the boobs every day!
hairy Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 Go for it with her if she says no then you know where you stand. Easy. So what if others wont like it, its your life, do what you want. If she says no then ignore her texts and msn. She cant keep dangling you on a piece of string and reel you in whenever she wants.
AoWW Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 If you really want to distance yourself from her maybe you just need to be a bit less 'available' to her, on msn in particular. If you don't want to talk to her, or you're feeling too 'fragile/emotional' to deal with it at any one time, just block her. You needn't keep it on permanently (coz then she'd definitely say you're ignoring her) but it just gives you the option of choosing when you want to talk - not her. Seems easier to me than her starting off a conversation and you trying to back out of it, and the ensuing grief. If she queries it, just say you've not been on there much recently. You really don't need to go overboard justifying yourself to her. At the moment she's got you dangling by a thread and, whatever she might say, she's loving it. Time to take back some control yourself and see what she makes of that.
Wycombe Fox Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 Is this the girl with the boyfriend? If so; a. Tell her how you feel b. Give her an ultimatum - "ditch your boyfriend and go out with me or I'm off to sort my life out" c. Shag her mum. d. Shag her sister. e. Does she have any pets? Once you've told her how you feel take a back-seat until she's sorted her side out. She's getting the best of both worlds and screwing with your head mate and it won't do you any good. All the best.
The People's Hero Posted 15 January 2008 Posted 15 January 2008 At the moment she's got you dangling by a thread and, whatever she might say, she's loving it. Time to take back some control yourself and see what she makes of that. Wise words.
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