Foxhateram Posted 3 February 2008 Posted 3 February 2008 Get rid of feelings you dont want to have anymore. i.e. Feelings for a girl, When you know nothing will happen? or this case something did happen i fell for her. Then certain things got in the way etc and nothing came of it. yes yes im still going on about this. I still have feelings for her, need to get rid!!!, how? techniques anyone? I know, i know, its SAD to post this sort of thing on a message board and i should make my own decisions and make my own mistakes etc. Has anyone else been/in the same situation that might be able to help?
David O'Leary Posted 3 February 2008 Posted 3 February 2008 Get rid of feelings you dont want to have anymore. i.e. Feelings for a girl, When you know nothing will happen? or this case something did happen i fell for her. Then certain things got in the way etc and nothing came of it. yes yes im still going on about this. I still have feelings for her, need to get rid!!!, how? techniques anyone? I know, i know, its SAD to post this sort of thing on a message board and i should make my own decisions and make my own mistakes etc. Has anyone else been/in the same situation that might be able to help? I need the same help as yourself, I know how difficult it is. Just try to stay as strong as possible mate Is there already/any chance of a friendship? Maybe you should stick to that, because I haven't even got that at the moment
Foxhateram Posted 3 February 2008 Author Posted 3 February 2008 I need the same help as yourself, I know how difficult it is. Just try to stay as strong as possible mate Is there already/any chance of a friendship? Maybe you should stick to that, because I haven't even got that at the moment We are friends, makes it harder to move on thow
Vardinhio Posted 3 February 2008 Posted 3 February 2008 Get on with things mate! It's nearly impossible at times but remember you were fine before you met this bird mate. You'll be fine again. Take pride in yourself and do the damn best u can at everything you do. Who knows, she might even feel the same back. Take things for what they are, don't expect more. Plan your own life, if she doesnt want in it then leave it. And it really is all about this. Most important thing is to gain perspective. Whatever you think about this girl there are maybe millions of girls out there with the same qualities. No one should be put on a pedestal unless they feel the same, you'll go mad. You can't banish feeling but just think about whats happened. In the big picture it probably isnt that bad.
David O'Leary Posted 3 February 2008 Posted 3 February 2008 We are friends, makes it harder to move on thow Oh, for me it was/is easier to move on, because at least you've both found a middle ground to move foward in your lives, just think it could of been worse, you could not be talking to each other but now at least you can see and talk to her
Guest Posted 3 February 2008 Posted 3 February 2008 Get rid of feelings you dont want to have anymore. i.e. Feelings for a girl, When you know nothing will happen?You don't/can't. Just accept the situation, and move on.
Daggers Posted 3 February 2008 Posted 3 February 2008 Everytime you find yourself thinking about her get a friend to smash you in the face while shouting the word "No!". Eventually you will become conditioned to respond simply to the word...and then the next step will find you off girls forever.
Foxhateram Posted 3 February 2008 Author Posted 3 February 2008 Get on with things mate!It's nearly impossible at times but remember you were fine before you met this bird mate. You'll be fine again. Take pride in yourself and do the damn best u can at everything you do. Who knows, she might even feel the same back. Take things for what they are, don't expect more. Plan your own life, if she doesnt want in it then leave it. And it really is all about this. Most important thing is to gain perspective. Whatever you think about this girl there are maybe millions of girls out there with the same qualities. No one should be put on a pedestal unless they feel the same, you'll go mad. You can't banish feeling but just think about whats happened. In the big picture it probably isnt that bad. Yer i guess you are both right. Just when we both get on really well as friends you begin to think maybe itl work again. But tehn ytou remember all the thigns that got in thwe way b4 and see there still there. You buold yourself up then let yourself down, it happens soo much.
Guest Posted 3 February 2008 Posted 3 February 2008 There is far too much angst and soul searching in this thread. You'll be listening to deep and meaningful music next....
Foxhateram Posted 3 February 2008 Author Posted 3 February 2008 There is far too much angst and soul searching in this thread. You'll be listening to deep and meaningful music next.... You mean that whale song thing? and smoking weed? mmmmmmmmmmmmm
Guest Posted 3 February 2008 Posted 3 February 2008 You mean that whale song thing? and smoking weed? mmmmmmmmmmmmm I was thinking more along the lines of S Club 7, and 'Never Had a Dream Come True'. And a can of Irn-Bru.
Foxhateram Posted 3 February 2008 Author Posted 3 February 2008 I was thinking more along the lines of S Club 7, and 'Never Had a Dream Come True'. And a can of Irn-Bru. oh il crawl back into my whole then haha. wheres AOWW? AOWW i need help!!!!
Asha Posted 3 February 2008 Posted 3 February 2008 Why is it a bad thing that you have feelings for her? It obviously shows you like her and you can never rule anything out ever. You never know what's around the corner. I never thought an essex girl would come out of nowhere and she had a boyfriend an everything, now im spending 50 quid on a valentines present Never give up hope
Foxhateram Posted 3 February 2008 Author Posted 3 February 2008 Why is it a bad thing that you have feelings for her? It obviously shows you like her and you can never rule anything out ever. You never know what's around the corner. I never thought an essex girl would come out of nowhere and she had a boyfriend an everything, now im spending 50 quid on a valentines present Never give up hope See that is the attitude i get, but if you look at it realistically it actually cant happen, with the things that get in the way. I just hate the way that hot and cold air is always being blown, and the way i cant stop thinking about her, ARGH!!! its so tempting to walk away completely and just cut off all connections ( this would amke it easier to move on), but i dont want to do that and lose her argh!
Guest Posted 3 February 2008 Posted 3 February 2008 Seriously, stop dwelling and get on with things. You may or may not end up with her, but you could be missing out on something better if you keep on thinking "what if". If it never happens, that's her loss, and in years to come, you'll be able to turn around and say that you're so much better off. There you will be, with your stunning partner, good social life, nice house and car, and there she will be, at least three stone heavier with a fat ugly bloke in tow and a couple of kids. You will feel so much better. Trust me.
Foxhateram Posted 3 February 2008 Author Posted 3 February 2008 Seriously, stop dwelling and get on with things. You may or may not end up with her, but you could be missing out on something better if you keep on thinking "what if". If it never happens, that's her loss, and in years to come, you'll be able to turn around and say that you're so much better off. There you will be, with your stunning partner, good social life, nice house and car, and there she will be, at least three stone heavier with a fat ugly bloke in tow and a couple of kids. You will feel so much better. Trust me. Argh i guess you are right. its just so frustrating cus we were so close to making something of it. Now shes just a friend and it happens so often to me. i end being the shoulder to cry on in between relationships then. Ah well, time to move on........
lookwhaticando Posted 4 February 2008 Posted 4 February 2008 oh il crawl back into my whole then haha. wheres AOWW? AOWW i need help!!!! Her real name is Deidre and she has her own column in a national rag. She comes quite highly rated.
MC Prussian Posted 4 February 2008 Posted 4 February 2008 Her real name is Deidre and she has her own column in a national rag. She comes quite highly rated. Shouldn't this be classified as ?
Trav Le Bleu Posted 4 February 2008 Posted 4 February 2008 You don't/can't. Just accept the situation, and move on. Top advice! It isn't easy, but it's what everyone has to do. Everytime you find yourself thinking about her get a friend to smash you in the face while shouting the word "No!".Eventually you will become conditioned to respond simply to the word...and then the next step will find you off girls forever. Not top advice! Really Professor Pavlov... I've told you about posting in this forum before! *rings bell* NO!
Steven Posted 4 February 2008 Posted 4 February 2008 You mean that whale song thing? and smoking weed? mmmmmmmmmmmmm I was thinking more along the lines of S Club 7, and 'Never Had a Dream Come True'. And a can of Irn-Bru. Very funny.
Tabou Posted 4 February 2008 Posted 4 February 2008 The absolute best thing you can do is not to try and be friends. It isn't to try and see her around. It most certainly isn't to keep hoping for something to happen.. I was in this situation about 2 years ago. Cut her well and truley out of your life. The whole 'friends' thing will never compensate for your feelings. Get rid. Move schools/colleges/jobs or whatever. It is hard for the first couple of months, but it is the only thing that will completly free you of you feelings. This isn't meant to be overly harsh, it really is the best way of getting rid of your problem.
General Smuts Posted 4 February 2008 Posted 4 February 2008 The absolute best thing you can do is not to try and be friends. It isn't to try and see her around. It most certainly isn't to keep hoping for something to happen..I was in this situation about 2 years ago. Cut her well and truley out of your life. The whole 'friends' thing will never compensate for your feelings. Get rid. Move schools/colleges/jobs or whatever. It is hard for the first couple of months, but it is the only thing that will completly free you of you feelings. This isn't meant to be overly harsh, it really is the best way of getting rid of your problem. Or you could just start liking men ...
Bert Posted 4 February 2008 Posted 4 February 2008 If after ALL of these topics, this lass is a munter, you're in big trouble my friend.
AyewJoking Posted 4 February 2008 Posted 4 February 2008 I drink to forget. When you've ran out of money you can worry about losing the beer belly.
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