Some stupid life advice needed

[Steven]

A wise man once said to me that you would not steal the hi-fi from your best friend; but you would steal his girlfriend.

[Guest]

Tell him I think. Imagine how youd feel if it was kept from you in a vice versa situation. 

[Len Finsbury]

Tell him. Let him make up his mind what to do about it.

[z-layrex]

Right slept on it, was pretty drunk when I posted this. They've only been seeing each other a month and a half, but she seemed really into him. Living in London now she has also been a good friend to me over the last couple of years, I see her much more than him even.

I didn't see anything, but I deffinatly heard noises coming from the room they were 'sleeping' in.

Will probably just keep my mouth shut I guess.

[VLC86]

It is a hard one to be honest.

Seams like you know an awful lot about this Lianne.

In all seriousness I recon blackmail is the way to handle this, ask Benzema.

[BoneDog]

She's going through one of those "Can't get enough dick" phases. 

 

NAIL HER SHOW HER WHAT YOU'RE MADE OF

[srbfox]

shit through her letter box

[Strokes]

Been in this situation more than once.

 

The moral of the story is always that when you mate finds out you knew and didn't tell him your friendship will never be the same again.

 

Do the hard thing, do the right thing and take the grief with pride in your heart and a shoulder roll, knowing your moral fabric and loyalty to do what's right is intact.

 

I've done this and had an ex-girlfriend get upset that I dobbed her mate in (who cares) and a woman try and pour a pint over my head and received some verbal abuse etc.. but my mates know we are in this life together and I'll hold my damp head up high!

Totally agree with this, think what would you want him to do in the same situation and the answer is clear.

[AoWW]

Right slept on it, was pretty drunk when I posted this. They've only been seeing each other a month and a half, but she seemed really into him. Living in London now she has also been a good friend to me over the last couple of years, I see her much more than him even.

I didn't see anything, but I deffinatly heard noises coming from the room they were 'sleeping' in.

Will probably just keep my mouth shut I guess.

 

So they haven't been together long, you don't really know the nature of their relationship, you can't really be certain what was going on and you were drunk.

 

I agree, keep your mouth shut (on this occasion... if, in the future, you discover she's playing him for a fool, then tell him... or tell her to tell him!)

[Unabomber]

woman in sleeping around incident shock horror

[ScouseFox]

she sounds like a slag, if he is anything close to your best mate you get him out asap simple as that 

[Langley]

Have they had the conversation that they're exclusive yet? If yes tell him if not then it's fair game.

[ramboacdc]

The best friend of my gf is dating one of my closest friends of the past 10 years. By dating I mean deffinatly 'seeing' each other for the past 2 months. I know for a fact she was at the very least kissing one of my seniors at work tonight when we went back to a friend's flat after a club.

What would you guys do? Should I tell him? we are all 28.

tell them. the guy deserves better than that. 

will hurt for a while but he needs to kknow. 

[Vlad the Fox]

It's your girlfriends friend, tell your girlfriend it's her responsibility and go for a pint.

[Bettsj2]

Sorry but this shouldnt even be a discussion. What happened to loyalty and watching each others back?

If he's your mate regardless of how often you see him, you tell him. You dont need to give her the benefit of the doubt and you certainly dont need to speak to her about it.

Your second post just sounds like excuses to be honest.