SOCCERROO FOX Posted 14 March 2011 Author Posted 14 March 2011 Ok Its time to go to the only true sage in these kind of situations... Mike Brady (the brady bunch not * up there cazaly). As Mike would say, if hhe is truely your friend, he would want you to be happy. Therefore if dating this young lady will make you happy, he should support you. So sayeth the MIKESTER! * as an aside... i discovered on my visit to Pride Park.. Derby sing some shitty little song to the tune of up there cazaly... i was disgusted. Found it what a crapy rip off. Original Just found this shocking Did she end it or did he? She says she did, he says he did.........go figure. It had been on the rocks for about 12 months cos they both grew apart,
Finnegan Posted 14 March 2011 Posted 14 March 2011 If he's claiming he did then he's got no real right to get worked up about her moving on. And without wanting to be the forum feminist, does she not have a right to decide who she dates anyway? I understand entirely the people that are saying think of your friendship and if you can see this only being about the sex then, alright, fair enough. But you're living your life, not his, if you foresee this being a serious relationship (and equally importantly, so does she) then it's yours for the taking. If your friendship matters to him then he'll no doubt come around with time, particularly the longer you are together. It's not like she's some bloodsucking harpy that ripped his heart out, they apparently broke up on fairly even terms after declaring it not working? Let her live her life and make her own decisions. Your mate should want the best for you.
Haydos Posted 14 March 2011 Posted 14 March 2011 How close are you and your mate, dunno if it's been mentioned. I know you were his best man and all but do you live near each other/see each other a load? And I agree with Finners, if he ended it and it's been a year, seems like fair game and he should come round with time
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 14 March 2011 Author Posted 14 March 2011 May just wait til he finds a new missus then it will ease the pain......wouldn't be suggesting a double date tho
cambridgefox Posted 14 March 2011 Posted 14 March 2011 May just wait til he finds a new missus then it will ease the pain......wouldn't be suggesting a double date tho See you have taken my advice,but you need to help him find one so he then cant say a word.
General Smuts Posted 15 March 2011 Posted 15 March 2011 Man the **** up and smash it. Or buy yourself a pocket pussy and shut up moaning!
callis Posted 15 March 2011 Posted 15 March 2011 you need to get a grip, how can you wait till he finds someone that may take ages. Just do it. I have in the past and my mate got over it after a few weeks cause he never had a choice. If you think its meant to be and u love her do it. MAN UP
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 15 March 2011 Author Posted 15 March 2011 Man the **** up and smash it. Or buy yourself a pocket pussy and shut up moaning! Educate me on a pocket pussy?
Mee Posted 15 March 2011 Posted 15 March 2011 Educate me on a pocket pussy? Ill go halves with you..? Link
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 15 March 2011 Author Posted 15 March 2011 They appear to come in different styles....not too sure i would want your sloppy seconds Mee has there doesn't appear to be enough drainage
General Smuts Posted 16 March 2011 Posted 16 March 2011 Putting your dick in a torch is more fun with the lightbulb still in it.
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 16 March 2011 Author Posted 16 March 2011 Smuts that sounds like a crappy way to get circumcision
ozleicester Posted 16 March 2011 Posted 16 March 2011 Found it what a crapy rip off. [media] [/media yep, that sounds like the sh*t i had to sit through... its bad enough being at "pride park".. but to hear them then completely destroy and aussie Classic Still they are Derby, so what do we expect
muzzy1981 Posted 18 March 2011 Posted 18 March 2011 Just read through this whole thread, love it, far more interesting than talking about whether it should be Ricardo or Weale? I think my approach would be: 1. Smash it (Sounds like you've done the groundwork, you deserve it!) 2. Talk to her about your feelings and concerns about your friend, tell her to promise not to say anything 3. Smash it for a bit longer see how it develops (without being harsh it could be that she's only showing interest because your his best friend) 4. If it really does develop into something and you know shes worth it, then tell your mate. Either way don't find yourself regretting not smashing it. I think I only cam on here so I could say "Smash it" 4 times.......Its quite common for friends to go out with exes etc. Your mate should have started to move on a bit by now. When was the last time he got laid that always helps?
Mee Posted 18 March 2011 Posted 18 March 2011 Reading back through this thread make me laugh . Roo - Any chance of a photo, so we can judge? May swing some decisions.
Fox1651 Posted 18 March 2011 Posted 18 March 2011 Nah leaving it well alone sounds sensible buddy, some blokes take ages to get over ex's. i know if one of my mates went out with my ex-wife, knowing the shite she has caused me i would fookin crucify him
Haydos Posted 19 March 2011 Posted 19 March 2011 Boring. You better give this thread a reason to pick up again soon.
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 19 March 2011 Author Posted 19 March 2011 Boring. You better give this thread a reason to pick up again soon. Inevitably i'll accedentially text her whilst drunk at some stage in the next few weeks. I'm meeting her for a drink tomorrow but i'll be on my best behaviour.
MC Prussian Posted 19 March 2011 Posted 19 March 2011 Does she have a single twin sister? For some strange reason, this situation reminds me of what Brendan Fraser has to endure in "Bedazzled".
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 19 March 2011 Author Posted 19 March 2011 Does she have a single twin sister? For some strange reason, this situation reminds me of what Brendan Fraser has to endure in "Bedazzled". Yeah i wish mate would cure many a sleep less night. But i've made my descion time to move on i guess
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