cambridgefox Posted 1 March 2011 Posted 1 March 2011 Keep away,it might be fun for a while,but you will do irreversible damage to your friendship,unless she is a right dirty slut then its worth it!
Mee Posted 2 March 2011 Posted 2 March 2011 Just leave it i say pal. Just be mates with your buddy. Friends will be there for longer than women. Unless you do play the gay role, get her comfortable with you, and then just go for the move...
Miquel The Work Geordie Posted 2 March 2011 Posted 2 March 2011 I may have over exaggerated the 9 but definelty an 8 which is good going for me. No pics will be uploaded. Well now I'll have to find some other fresh material to have a crafty hand shandy over. Cheers for tug-preventing, Roof, I hope you sleep well tonight.
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 2 March 2011 Author Posted 2 March 2011 Well now I'll have to find some other fresh material to have a crafty hand shandy over. Cheers for tug-preventing, Roof, I hope you sleep well tonight. What if i just talk really dirty too you like the good old days in the all nighter thread
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 13 March 2011 Author Posted 13 March 2011 OK text and innuendo text have been flying around all weekend after a 90 minute phone convo Wednesday night. Avoiding for the betterment of a friendship is easier said than done, <_<
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 13 March 2011 Author Posted 13 March 2011 This is gonna get so messy. Your telling me, i'm torn between wanting to be mates and more than mates with this chick cos we really really do get along,as well as trying not to go behind my best mates back. I've read every post in this thread 3-4 times over and my head says one thing and my heart says another, I know the right answer but i can't totally accept it. I wish life would be so much easier some times i'm sick of feeling guilty and deceitful even tho i've done nothing out of the ordinary.
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 13 March 2011 Author Posted 13 March 2011 Another point i may just come off on here as someone who drinks a lot and takes the piss a lot as well. But why can't i just look after myself for a change and not care what anyone else feels like?
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 13 March 2011 Author Posted 13 March 2011 Just smash it you bumder I wish my mind thought like this instead of worrying about every single consequnce possible.
Jackirius Posted 13 March 2011 Posted 13 March 2011 I've lost a lot of respect for you in this thread Soccerroo, i thought you were a man.
Jackirius Posted 13 March 2011 Posted 13 March 2011 *And you never know what your mate will say, he could just give it a 'Oh no worries'. And all of this perturb would have been for nothing.
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 13 March 2011 Author Posted 13 March 2011 I've lost a lot of respect for you in this thread Soccerroo, i thought you were a man. Fair suck on the old savaloy champ! I'm a man, just one in a very big dilema normally i wouldn't give a fat rats clacker but i actaully rate both parties highly and wish this was a non issue but i can't help my feelings (actually fair point that does sound a bit girly ) *And you never know what your mate will say, he could just give it a 'Oh no worries'. And all of this perturb would have been for nothing. I know his thoughts and he he still hasn't moved on and hates the fact i still talk to her. He only knows i still chat and see her cos i tell him cos i wouldn't feel right not telling him
sdb Posted 13 March 2011 Posted 13 March 2011 Time to bite the bullet bro. Either way you've gotta make a decision before you go crazy, he breaks down worrying about it and she goes elsewhere. Good luck.
Mee Posted 13 March 2011 Posted 13 March 2011 Give your mate a dutch rudder and get him to rate it out of 10. If he rates it under 5 - then stay friends. If he rates it above 5 - then fuck her guts.
ozleicester Posted 13 March 2011 Posted 13 March 2011 Ok Its time to go to the only true sage in these kind of situations... Mike Brady (the brady bunch not * up there cazaly). As Mike would say, if hhe is truely your friend, he would want you to be happy. Therefore if dating this young lady will make you happy, he should support you. So sayeth the MIKESTER! * as an aside... i discovered on my visit to Pride Park.. Derby sing some shitty little song to the tune of up there cazaly... i was disgusted.
cambridgefox Posted 13 March 2011 Posted 13 March 2011 Change of plan,why dont you try your very best to set your mate up with a women,then when he has one, move in.If he says anything say,hold on a minute you have moved on.He will have to agree with you.Problem solved!
Vardinhio Posted 13 March 2011 Posted 13 March 2011 Your mate will be gutted. In all honesty if he knows you keep meeting up with her he has more than likely twigged what might be about to happen. If he is a mate you realllllyy don't want to lose then you have to drop it but at the end of the day there is something to be said for looking after number one. Ouch, this fence hurts.
MPH Posted 13 March 2011 Posted 13 March 2011 Even if your mate is bothered, and he is, he had the opportunity to tell you but was considerate enough to tell you he doesn't mind. He cares for your feelings. How long term does this relationship seem like being? That should decide your next move ........
Haydos Posted 14 March 2011 Posted 14 March 2011 Nail her or call it off, longer it goes on the more you're going to whine about it if you do eventually decide not to. You'd do the dirty if you didn't have ovaries where you're balls should be
SOCCERROO FOX Posted 14 March 2011 Author Posted 14 March 2011 Ok Its time to go to the only true sage in these kind of situations... Mike Brady (the brady bunch not * up there cazaly). As Mike would say, if hhe is truely your friend, he would want you to be happy. Therefore if dating this young lady will make you happy, he should support you. So sayeth the MIKESTER! * as an aside... i discovered on my visit to Pride Park.. Derby sing some shitty little song to the tune of up there cazaly... i was disgusted. That's brilliant! I''m off to some research now.
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