Mates ex missus

[Miquel The Work Geordie]

Basically Roof it's a no win situation.

[SOCCERROO FOX]

Basically Roof it's a no win situation.

Certaintly appears that way

Have a feeling remaining close friends with her may also be an issue

[Christoph]

Bros before hoes. How important is your friend compared to her? As if this goes further theres a chance you wont be friends anymore. Is she worth losing a potential life long friend for what could be just a few months of pussy? I dont think its worth it. Unless your really lonely and cant pull other birds

[Fosse Boy]

Don't shag her on Valentine's Day when your mate's broken up with her the week before. That would be my sage advice on this subject.

[CKB]

Noooooooooooooo!! you just don't do it..

Been there ended up with my mate nearly trying to kill me, he was abit of a mentalist to be fair but still i learned and it's just not worth it

[Mee]

Don't shag her on Valentine's Day when your mate's broken up with her the week before. That would be my sage advice on this subject.

Speaking from previous experience?

Any more head-way on the situation Roo?

[Miquel The Work Geordie]

Where's the pics Roof?

[SOCCERROO FOX]

Where's the pics Roof?

I may have over exaggerated the 9 but definelty an 8 which is good going for me. No pics will be uploaded.

[ACF]

I may have over exaggerated the 9 but definelty an 8 which is good going for me. No pics will be uploaded.

You're not fun.

[skinnydipper]

Hoes before bros.

Smash it.

Agree with this, but sometimes you have to respect your mates. 'Bro's before Hoes' as the saying goes, if his mate doesn't feel comfortable with it, then you have to think, if it worth loosing a mate over a girl in which the relationship may not even last a month.

Roo - You need some beers, the football on the TV and a nice chat with you friend.

Then fuck her round the bushes.

I reckon that we should e-mail the link for this thread to her so that she might appreciate the careful consideration given by many to her future welfare

Just PM me her e-mail address Soccerroo and I'll do the rest

[ACF]

I'd say do it, but your in and around Franga, so you'll get stabbed.

Nice knowing you.

[Manwell Pablo]

I may have over exaggerated the 9 but definelty an 8 which is good going for me. No pics will be uploaded.

Oh dear it's starting to slip, she'll be down in the 7's before long.

[Zingari]

my advice is to pretend you're gay .

your mate won't be bothered how often you meet up with her , and in a few months / weeks time when the dust has settled , you could just say that you were a little bit confused about your sexuality and the girl sorted you out

[Lcfcman2010]

living the life as a LCFC fan is a rollercoaster itself, so my advise would be just add another rollercoaster moment.

you only live once and may only smash it once if the above comment of getting stabbed is to go by.

good luck

hit it and quit it.

[General Smuts]

Smash it.

[Manwell Pablo]

If you were going to be his best man, you need to have a good hard look and ask yourself some serious questions. Clearly he is bothered which is unlucky for you, if one of my mates wanted to tag my last ex they would have my blessing to go for it but I guess every break up is different. But seeing as he is I would drop it. There are plenty of birds out there that wont wreck your standing with a good friend and judging by the amount of restraint you've shown so far I don't think you view her as the love of your life or anything, just a nice looking girl you happen to get on with who might be interested.

[hairy]

Maybe she wants you as a way to give him another kick in the bollox and to take one more thing away from him before she leaves the scene?

Not worth it in my book. One rule of dating / going steady is the girls come and go but your mates should always be there. You should always make time for them no matter your circumstance.

[z-layrex]

Simple, no matter how you justify it, if you go out with a friend's ex, you can't be much of a friend to him.

[StanSP]

Simple, no matter how you justify it, if you go out with a friend's ex, you can't be much of a friend to him.

Not necessarily. Depending on how understanding Roo Fox's friend is, and if his friend isn't hung up or still not over her, then she's single and available. And as long as there was nothing going on between Roo and the girl while best mate and girl were going out, then she's fair game.

[Mee]

You could always just send her around Zingari's house for a chat, then she will come out wanting you forever.

[AoWW]

Not necessarily. Depending on how understanding Roo Fox's friend is, and if his friend isn't hung up or still not over her, then she's single and available. And as long as there was nothing going on between Roo and the girl while best mate and girl were going out, then she's fair game.

Yeah, but Roo's friend clearly is still hung up on her... he's already proved as much by his reaction to Roo saying he was meeting up with her (however platonic he claimed the meeting was!) .

[MPH]

my advice is to pretend you're gay .

your mate won't be bothered how often you meet up with her , and in a few months / weeks time when the dust has settled , you could just say that you were a little bit confused about your sexuality and the girl sorted you out

Im impressed with this logic. If you play the gay role well enough she might even get unchanged in front of you....

[SOCCERROO FOX]

If you were going to be his best man, you need to have a good hard look and ask yourself some serious questions. Clearly he is bothered which is unlucky for you, if one of my mates wanted to tag my last ex they would have my blessing to go for it but I guess every break up is different. But seeing as he is I would drop it. There are plenty of birds out there that wont wreck your standing with a good friend and judging by the amount of restraint you've shown so far I don't think you view her as the love of your life or anything, just a nice looking girl you happen to get on with who might be interested.

A little bit of this and the fact that it will need to be all or nothing as she wants something long term which adds even more pressure on the situation.

[SOCCERROO FOX]

Yeah, but Roo's friend clearly is still hung up on her... he's already proved as much by his reaction to Roo saying he was meeting up with her (however platonic he claimed the meeting was!) .

The other week went to her house during the week for Dinner nothing happened there was another couple there (not that we are a couple) and 3 days later i got a message from my mate asking if i had been there i said yeah went for a catch up and he lost his shit at work according to his work mates. I gave him a call and he said he didn't mind and that but i've known him long enough to know it did bother him.

[Jon the Hat]

Everything you have said suggests he is going to be gutted if you start seeing her. I think if you were going to be his best man then you can call your friendship over if you go down this road behind his back. Seems to me you have two options. Either front up and tell him you like each other and are going to give it a go, you didn't intend to feel the way you do etc. It is not his decision though be clear on that. He mightcone round eventually, he might not. Or you walk away and keep your mate.