Babylon Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 Ok - so are you admitting that you have degraded someone during sex because they liked it? You seem happy to share this in the public domain so could I ask why you think it would be acceptable to degrade someone? I dont think that's extreme because I'm questioning what you said. It didn't come across very well you see - from a female view. I think he's made that perfectly clear, because some people want that and like it. Just as some people like whipping, nipple clamps, gimp outfits of any other sort or sordid stuff. Not that it relates to this case IMO.
DennisNedry Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 Ok - so are you admitting that you have degraded someone during sex because they liked it? You seem happy to share this in the public domain so could I ask why you think it would be acceptable to degrade someone? I dont think that's extreme because I'm questioning what you said. It didn't come across very well you see - from a female view. If you're a woman, you must have read 50 shades of grey or know somebody who has it... why don't you have a read of that? Submission/dominance and degradation are big parts of BDSM, it's not up to you to dictate what people like to do sexually.
yorkie1999 Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 I think he's made that perfectly clear, because some people want that and like it. Just as some people like whipping, nipple clamps, gimp outfits of any other sort or sordid stuff. Not that it relates to this case IMO. What are nipple clamps?
GingerrrFox Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 Ok - so are you admitting that you have degraded someone during sex because they liked it? You seem happy to share this in the public domain so could I ask why you think it would be acceptable to degrade someone? I dont think that's extreme because I'm questioning what you said. It didn't come across very well you see - from a female view. Degraded maybe the wrong word but I was referring more to the misogynistic comments used in the video. "Talking dirty" as some would say. There are some who don't agree with the morals of that but others may enjoy that kind of talk in the bedroom. It's all personal opinion. The racism I obviously DO NOT AGREE WITH or CONDONE but it's not clear who said that comment. I'm just saying it may not be as clear cut as saying sack the players and get rid because of unfair dismissal claims.
Rincewind Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 People are calling for their sacking and being hung drawn and quartered yet still want to watch the video.
fantastic_mr_fox Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 Apologies chaps I am thinking more of the context here - perhaps the three Leicester boys and the ladies were all enjoying a spot of 50-shades role play then after being inspired by the book. In that case that's fine - let them off And I have t read the book!!
GingerrrFox Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 If you're a woman, you must have read 50 shades of grey or know somebody who has it... why don't you have a read of that? Submission/dominance and degradation are big parts of BDSM, it's not up to you to dictate what people like to do sexually. This is exactly what I am saying unless it's illegal and breaks the law it's down to personal taste on these matters. What one person enjoys is not for others to cast judgement on unless it breaks the law.
weller54 Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 This is exactly what I am saying unless it's illegal and breaks the law it's down to personal taste on these matters. What one person enjoys is not for others to cast judgement on unless it breaks the law. ...which this has done according to Thai law!?
GingerrrFox Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 ...which this has done according to Thai law!? I don't know the intricacies of the law in Thailand therefore I haven't commented on it.
Guest ttfn Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 Degraded maybe the wrong word but I was referring more to the misogynistic comments used in the video. "Talking dirty" as some would say. There are some who don't agree with the morals of that but others may enjoy that kind of talk in the bedroom. It's all personal opinion. The racism I obviously DO NOT AGREE WITH or CONDONE but it's not clear who said that comment. I'm just saying it may not be as clear cut as saying sack the players and get rid because of unfair dismissal claims. What if some people liked to be racially abused in the bedroom? Would that make the racist comment ok?I would suggest that the racist comment (made between the men, not even addressing the woman/women) merely confirms the completely disrespectful tone of the video. At one point in the video somebody even says "she's a proper 1/10". That's not about degrading somebody in a sexual sense, it's a hateful comment towards the woman in question. Some serious ostriches out here today.
Fox92 Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 I don't know why people keep posting "BBC/Sky have got it" etc. It's obvious that was going to happen. Once something circles in the media that's it.
fantastic_mr_fox Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 It's all very sad really isn't it after a great few weeks?
foxoffderby Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 I don't know why people keep posting "BBC/Sky have got it" etc. It's obvious that was going to happen. Once something circles in the media that's it. It could of been played down, but if the beeb and Sky have it then its big news worse for the club in terms of PR
DennisNedry Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 What's worrying is the damage to our reputation both at home and in Thailand this could cause - especially if the owners see it as disrespectful and an insult to their culture and country.
DennisNedry Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 Imagine how awkward it will be for Pearson Jr when he next sees Big Nige.
Rincewind Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 I don't know the intricacies of the law in Thailand therefore I haven't commented on it. This could be another reason why the club have not made an instant statement. They have to be sure Thai police won't be dragging the players away any time soon. Its not just contracts and moralsthey have to look at but also Thai law which they may not be up to spec with.
SamW Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 The actions of three young, idiotic players are not going to make the owners sell the club. They are wise and smart enough to realise that footballers come and go in a football club, and that these players' views do not represent the whole club's. The three players will be quietly moved on, especially as Pearson is a patron of Kick It Out, and the fuss will die down.
yorkie1999 Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 http://www.google.co.uk It was meant as a tongue in cheek question in order to affirm the innocence of multiple sexual suggestions made by rincewind.
Guest ttfn Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 Yet the women can clearly be heard laughing about it. I think its a bit of vodka and charlie night. Oh wait, surely that's not what 30000 fans have been singing for 2 seasons is it. The women can be heard laughing; I'd be surprised if their English is good enough to understand what an "absolute 1/10" is but I could be wrong. "Eat shit love". Yeah, no misogyny to see here, move along.
fantastic_mr_fox Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 The women can be heard laughing; I'd be surprised if their English is good enough to understand what an "absolute 1/10" is but I could be wrong. "Eat shit love". Yeah, no misogyny to see here, move along. They were probably laughing at james pearson's massive nose
DennisNedry Posted 31 May 2015 Posted 31 May 2015 The women can be heard laughing; I'd be surprised if their English is good enough to understand what an "absolute 1/10" is but I could be wrong. "Eat shit love". Yeah, no misogyny to see here, move along. They're young, arrogant, rich and fairly handsome looking football players. Doesn't surprise me in the slightest they act like that, in fact they probably treat English girls like that too, their mistake was filming it.
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