Asha Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 My girlfriend, aged 14, may have cancer. This world is a fooking joke.
StroudFox Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 My girlfriend, aged 14, may have cancer.This world is a fooking joke. Life is indeed a joke and sucks. Hope it is treatable if she is diagnosed with it.
The Stig Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 My girlfriend, aged 14, may have cancer.This world is a fooking joke. I'm so sorry to hear that mate. I hope all works out OK.
lavrentis Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 My girlfriend, aged 14, may have cancer.This world is a fooking joke. Life is a joke, I hope she doesn't have it but god forbid if she does hope she gets through it.
morris1234 Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 My girlfriend, aged 14, may have cancer.This world is a fooking joke. im sorry mate, heres me on about hair wax hope shes fine as nobody wants to hear things like this about anybody even if you dont know them! many best wishes
Foxhateram Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 My girlfriend, aged 14, may have cancer.This world is a fooking joke. Heya mate, my mums had cancer and recovered, and my mate has cancer atm. if you even need to chat about things. just PM me il try and help. Its not nice, and i hope she doesnt have it. If she does have it though mate, you need to stay strong.
danny. Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 my mum had cancer too and recovered from it, my friend (24) also has it at the moment and she is battling well against it - don't give up!
Nick Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 my mum had cancer too and recovered from it, my friend (24) also has it at the moment and she is battling well against it - don't give up! All the best son..... it aint over till its over.
Simi Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 I lost my dad to cancer. Horrible, horrible thing. I hope all turns out well, wouldn't wish it on anyone.
Asha Posted 18 March 2008 Author Posted 18 March 2008 Cheers everyone, it's just not the kind of thing i expected her to need to deal with. Plus emotionally she all over the place, meaning im liable to be dumped. Understandable though, i can't think of anything to say to her that can make her feel any better.
Raj Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 My girlfriend, aged 14, may have cancer.This world is a fooking joke. Hope it isnt Cancer pal. Its a bastard at any age but at 14???? Thats terrible. Hope she gets well and stick with her as she'll be relying on her friends and family
sdb Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 My girlfriend, aged 14, may have cancer.This world is a fooking joke. hope not mate. lost my mum when i was 8
Stevosevic Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 Terrible, really hope she hasn't got it and news like this puts everything into perspective.
sdb Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 hope not mate. lost my mum when i was 8 that kinda sounds like im trying to take other peoples sympathy - sorry, wasn;t meant to be like that. lots of people recover so don't be too downhearted yet
Asha Posted 18 March 2008 Author Posted 18 March 2008 Hope it isnt Cancer pal.Its a bastard at any age but at 14???? Thats terrible. Hope she gets well and stick with her as she'll be relying on her friends and family Yeah i'll stick with her. But when it comes to being strong for her, i struggle.
Raj Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 Yeah i'll stick with her. But when it comes to being strong for her, i struggle. You just gotta try your best. Cant do no more than that can you? Good luck.
Asha Posted 18 March 2008 Author Posted 18 March 2008 that kinda sounds like im trying to take other peoples sympathy - sorry, wasn;t meant to be like that.lots of people recover so don't be too downhearted yet no worries mate, it was cancer in ur mom's case as well so majorly relevant to this thread. You just gotta try your best.Cant do no more than that can you? Good luck. Yeah cheers mate.
Asha Posted 18 March 2008 Author Posted 18 March 2008 The doctors think they can see a tumour in her brain from a scan of some kind, and also my girlfriend just texted me to say she's found lump in her arm, and it hurts to move it. I'm shit scared, as it keeps looking more and more serious
Wils Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 Help her, be there for her through everything mate. Never take her for granted, trust me i know. Look after her, it will be fine.
Daggers Posted 18 March 2008 Posted 18 March 2008 I hope that everything pans out fine - I'm sure it will When I was 16 my girlfriend (Loretta) told me she had a brain tumour, was going to die and could not have me around as an added complication. Seven years later - I bumped into her in Northampton market. She had greasy hair, a pram and various spawn shuffling around her feet. On one hand the magnitude of the lie was amazing, dumping through proxy death, on the other hand I was simply delighted at escaping from Chav Hell. On a third, slightly deformed Jeremy Beadle-styled hand one has to wonder 'who the **** calls their daughter Loretta'?
Thracian Posted 19 March 2008 Posted 19 March 2008 The doctors think they can see a tumour in her brain from a scan of some kind, and also my girlfriend just texted me to say she's found lump in her arm, and it hurts to move it. I'm shit scared, as it keeps looking more and more serious If it's any comfort at all my wife survived a big brain tumour operation at the Queens Medical Centre in Nottingham. Over 13 hours surgery, no pain whatsoever, nothing but paracetomol afterwards for a few days, sitting up in bed feeding herself at the end of the operation day, eating in a restaurant barely a week later, no visual signs of the operation save minor bruising where a clamp held her head and no ill effects over 18 months later. They didn't even cut much of her hair off. Obviously I don't know your girlfriend's situation but if what I say helps ease her (and your) apprehension then I'll be more than pleased. PM me by all means if you need any info. As it is, fingers crossed for a good prognosis and for a happy and successful outcome.
General Smuts Posted 19 March 2008 Posted 19 March 2008 Good luck NSLL, hope everything turns out for the best and she pulls through.
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