cambridgefox Posted 3 September 2018 Posted 3 September 2018 5 hours ago, lmtiazLCFC4LIFE said: How do you muster up the courage to tell the parent of the kid sitting next to you to stop touching me with his clap banner during home matches? It's pissing me off and giving me OCD anxiety during the game! That's not what I pay for! Swap with his dad?
Trav Le Bleu Posted 3 September 2018 Posted 3 September 2018 47 minutes ago, cambridgefox said: Swap with his dad? What, swap with his dad and look after the kid for a week? Until the next game? He's got OCD, anxiety and depression. This isn't what he pays for!
stripeyfox Posted 3 September 2018 Posted 3 September 2018 3 hours ago, lmtiazLCFC4LIFE said: I'm not gonna lie I did initially misread it as Muzzy Izzet in a hurry so I thought it may be the legend himself but then when I just realised it was Izzy I felt embarrassed and in order to save myself from embarrassment I had to say, "Yeah I know lol! I thought maybe you're his wife!" Lol. ? We all make mistakes when we read too fast! Izzy is a bigger legend on here than Muzzy ever was /will be ? 1 1
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 What's with all the mental illness bashing on here and calling me a wimp? Unbelievable.
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 5 hours ago, Claridge said: You have a lot of issues.Have you ever had any help? Nah I don't have a lot of issues, just speaking the truth!
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 4 hours ago, Sambiasso said: Sounds like someone needs some bubble wrap and a safe place! What happens if your new seat is next to a child that you don't like the look of? or whose behaviour does not befit your standards? Fuching snowflakes these day I did the laughing emoji on your comment myself because you're just a troll and don't understand mental illness.
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 8 hours ago, urban.spaceman said: I totally get your issue - OCD and anxiety are awful and even if it seems like nothing to worry about to other people, it can be massive for the person suffering from it. I'd suggest taking the soft, long-term approach of maybe interacting with the kid before the game, asking him if he's excited, who does he think will win, who his favourite player is, high five him when we score etc - eventually he'll be a bit more considerate and/or his parent will be a bit more aware of what his kid is doing. Either that or just twat him in the face with your own clap banner Thank you for understanding my issue unlike some people on here... trolls.
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 4 hours ago, Sambiasso said: Sounds like someone needs some bubble wrap and a safe place! What happens if your new seat is next to a child that you don't like the look of? or whose behaviour does not befit your standards? Fuching snowflakes these day When have I ever said I don't like the look of a child? What a disgusting thing to say. Don't put words in people's mouths please.
Unabomber Posted 4 September 2018 Posted 4 September 2018 5 hours ago, cambridgefox said: Una/MTWG springs to my mind. The scamps. I’m offended. I do sit with my dad but I would never touch some weirdo with my clapper. 1 2
the fox Posted 4 September 2018 Posted 4 September 2018 (edited) 9 hours ago, lmtiazLCFC4LIFE said: I just got off the phone with the ticketing line and thank God I got my seat moved for free by the club due to my mental health condition! Thank you all for your help! Come on Leicester! Listen, man. I got an advice for you that you can choose to take it or leave it. As you said, you are struggling with your mental health and I hope you get better. Now that's out of the way, I can get on with my point. You were thinking about it too much, you jumped to conclusions without even trying to give it a fair crack of the whip. You ignored a simple interaction that could've saved you a lot of effort. You could've gone about it and told the man to restrain his son. It's not about the kid stopping, it's about you trying to solve a regular, small problem that could happen to anyone instead of overthinking. This is an honest advice, mate. I know you're struggling but pretending that a mountain doesn't exist won't move it out of the way. The arrow has already left the bow and now you're changing seats but to what end? Will you change it again because you faced another small inconvenience? What if you found a bigger inconvenience? Will you stop going to the games. I know things are easier said then done. I'm not in your shoes so I can't say I know what you're going through those small inconveniences are the key to getting you feeling better about yourself and overcoming your issues. Overthinking it is making you suffer more. The less-troublesome for you isn't always the right way to doing things. That is just a moulhill that you've turned into a mountain. Don't say" I got this and that". You are a person just like everyone else and you have the right to voice your opinion and discomfort. Don't say that "I have my essues" to disqualify yourself . Everyone has an essue one way or the other so for your sake, don't forfeit that right that you are intitled to have. Wish you all the best. I'm not here to be an armchair psychologist at 2 in the morning. I've might even have it all wrong.... Just.. Work on it, man. Ps. Found it really weird that most are joking around instead of giving the man a proper advice. Edited 4 September 2018 by the fox
cambridgefox Posted 4 September 2018 Posted 4 September 2018 7 hours ago, lmtiazLCFC4LIFE said: What's with all the mental illness bashing on here and calling me a wimp? Unbelievable. General Chat Depression thread Worth a read
Babylon Posted 4 September 2018 Posted 4 September 2018 18 hours ago, Simoken said: What happened after the snapping? I can't talk about a pending court case. 1
Strokes Posted 4 September 2018 Posted 4 September 2018 11 hours ago, lmtiazLCFC4LIFE said: What's with all the mental illness bashing on here and calling me a wimp? Unbelievable. Perhaps introduce yourself a little more subtle than, hello I’m tiaz and I’m a mentalist, in future. Its has tincys fingerprints all over this.
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 12 hours ago, the fox said: Listen, man. I got an advice for you that you can choose to take it or leave it. As you said, you are struggling with your mental health and I hope you get better. Now that's out of the way, I can get on with my point. You were thinking about it too much, you jumped to conclusions without even trying to give it a fair crack of the whip. You ignored a simple interaction that could've saved you a lot of effort. You could've gone about it and told the man to restrain his son. It's not about the kid stopping, it's about you trying to solve a regular, small problem that could happen to anyone instead of overthinking. This is an honest advice, mate. I know you're struggling but pretending that a mountain doesn't exist won't move it out of the way. The arrow has already left the bow and now you're changing seats but to what end? Will you change it again because you faced another small inconvenience? What if you found a bigger inconvenience? Will you stop going to the games. I know things are easier said then done. I'm not in your shoes so I can't say I know what you're going through those small inconveniences are the key to getting you feeling better about yourself and overcoming your issues. Overthinking it is making you suffer more. The less-troublesome for you isn't always the right way to doing things. That is just a moulhill that you've turned into a mountain. Don't say" I got this and that". You are a person just like everyone else and you have the right to voice your opinion and discomfort. Don't say that "I have my essues" to disqualify yourself . Everyone has an essue one way or the other so for your sake, don't forfeit that right that you are intitled to have. Wish you all the best. I'm not here to be an armchair psychologist at 2 in the morning. I've might even have it all wrong.... Just.. Work on it, man. Ps. Found it really weird that most are joking around instead of giving the man a proper advice. To be honest with you, I prefer the easier way to change seats. It's done now so just leave it. No need for the thesis. 1
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 Need to delete this thread because it's getting silly now.
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 The club understood my problem but to you fools on here it's my fault? Assholes.
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 Already changed seats so it's done and dusted, end of.
VLC86 Posted 4 September 2018 Posted 4 September 2018 The clearest run in the thread where it isn’t just you posting to yourself but it’s only just getting out of hand.
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 13 hours ago, the fox said: Listen, man. I got an advice for you that you can choose to take it or leave it. As you said, you are struggling with your mental health and I hope you get better. Now that's out of the way, I can get on with my point. You were thinking about it too much, you jumped to conclusions without even trying to give it a fair crack of the whip. You ignored a simple interaction that could've saved you a lot of effort. You could've gone about it and told the man to restrain his son. It's not about the kid stopping, it's about you trying to solve a regular, small problem that could happen to anyone instead of overthinking. This is an honest advice, mate. I know you're struggling but pretending that a mountain doesn't exist won't move it out of the way. The arrow has already left the bow and now you're changing seats but to what end? Will you change it again because you faced another small inconvenience? What if you found a bigger inconvenience? Will you stop going to the games. I know things are easier said then done. I'm not in your shoes so I can't say I know what you're going through those small inconveniences are the key to getting you feeling better about yourself and overcoming your issues. Overthinking it is making you suffer more. The less-troublesome for you isn't always the right way to doing things. That is just a moulhill that you've turned into a mountain. Don't say" I got this and that". You are a person just like everyone else and you have the right to voice your opinion and discomfort. Don't say that "I have my essues" to disqualify yourself . Everyone has an essue one way or the other so for your sake, don't forfeit that right that you are intitled to have. Wish you all the best. I'm not here to be an armchair psychologist at 2 in the morning. I've might even have it all wrong.... Just.. Work on it, man. Ps. Found it really weird that most are joking around instead of giving the man a proper advice. Say no more.
lmtiazLCFC4LIFE Posted 4 September 2018 Author Posted 4 September 2018 5 minutes ago, Costock_Fox said: The clearest run in the thread where it isn’t just you posting to yourself but it’s only just getting out of hand. You ain't funny mate.
Sambiasso Posted 4 September 2018 Posted 4 September 2018 I think we can all agree the kid and his dad were the real winners in all this, proper drama queen. 2
TiffToff88 Posted 4 September 2018 Posted 4 September 2018 (edited) On 03/09/2018 at 15:52, lmtiazLCFC4LIFE said: How do you muster up the courage to tell the parent of the kid sitting next to you to stop touching me with his clap banner during home matches? It's pissing me off and giving me OCD anxiety during the game! That's not what I pay for! I went to school with a guy called Imtiaz. He WAS the annoying special kid who touched other people. I'm sure that's not you though... Seriously though, just have a word with the parents. If they refuse to do anything, then speak to the stewards. If that doesn't work, I suggest you write them an open letter and post it in here. That always seems to do the trick. Edited 4 September 2018 by TiffToff88
the fox Posted 4 September 2018 Posted 4 September 2018 (edited) 2 hours ago, lmtiazLCFC4LIFE said: To be honest with you, I prefer the easier way to change seats. It's done now so just leave it. No need for the thesis. Hope you get better and enjoy your new seat. Just make sure to be confrontational just like this post the next time you face situations like those. Edited 4 September 2018 by the fox
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