Katy Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Unbelievable!I walk into Lecture today and sit next to her. She asks to borrow a piece of paper, and only bloody writes down her number for me! I couldn't believe it Raj, but shoving my cock in her ear worked! There you go, listen to your Auntie Katy and you'll go far Congrats to the guy who got a girls number First week i came uni i was fine, got loads people's numbers and confidence overflowed. Pulled a few girls too. Then i kinda got knocked back one night, and i have been knocked back ever since. Not really sure what happened. (Oh btw we had Elliot Minor at our Flat how cool are we!!!!!!!) Ah back luck mate, it does knock your confidence a fair bit doesn't it. Just carry on being nice, it will come (no smut please)
BigGibbo Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Congrats to the guy who got a girls number First week i came uni i was fine, got loads people's numbers and confidence overflowed. Pulled a few girls too. Then i kinda got knocked back one night, and i have been knocked back ever since. Not really sure what happened. (Oh btw we had Elliot Minor at our Flat how cool are we!!!!!!!) If Elliot Minor were playing in my garden, I would draw the curtains!
Foxhateram Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 There you go, listen to your Auntie Katy and you'll go far Ah back luck mate, it does knock your confidence a fair bit doesn't it. Just carry on being nice, it will come (no smut please) Tbh my confidence is fine. As far as im concerned its their loss not mine. I am always nice Im alright at getting numbers and pulling. Its taking to the next level that im rubbish at. i get so far with a girl, then sorta get nervous about the rest, and then end up being her best mate rather then her BF. The i end up fancying that person, but that person see's me as a mate and nothing more.
Floating Fox Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Ahh nice to hear you got her number dude. I always think that you'll regret what you don't do more than what you actually do. A bit of dutch courage always helps though
Foxhateram Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 If Elliot Minor were playing in my garden, I would draw the curtains! tbh they were shite! but i thought it was cool that they came to our flat, played my guitar and then fooked off with the beer that we'd all vleft because it had gone out of date.
Katy Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Tbh my confidence is fine. As far as im concerned its their loss not mine. I am always nice Im alright at getting numbers and pulling. Its taking to the next level that im rubbish at. i get so far with a girl, then sorta get nervous about the rest, and then end up being her best mate rather then her BF. The i end up fancying that person, but that person see's me as a mate and nothing more. That has always been my problem (but with lads) Maybe they just aren't the right one to do 'it' with with even though you fancy them if that makes sense.
Joe. Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Congrats to the guy who got a girls number First week i came uni i was fine, got loads people's numbers and confidence overflowed. Pulled a few girls too. Then i kinda got knocked back one night, and i have been knocked back ever since. Not really sure what happened. (Oh btw we had Elliot Minor at our Flat how cool are we!!!!!!!) Don't worry mate, you'll get over it eventually. Unfortunately there are bands like Elliot Minor out there.
Miquel The Work Geordie Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Don't worry mate, you'll get over it eventually. Unfortunately there are bands like Elliot Minor out there. Whoosh!
Guest Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Unfortunately there are bands like Elliot Minor out there. Not if I had my way.
Corky Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Oh btw we had Elliot Minor at our Flat how cool are we!!!!!!!) We had the Ting Tings next door last night. That pisses on your bonfire doesn't it?
The Reverend Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 What threads this, the 'brag about terrible bands that have been to my uni' thread?
JoeyB Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Vengaboys were at loughborough college last year or summet
Corky Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 What threads this, the 'brag about terrible bands that have been to my uni' thread? We had a live session from Aqua a couple of weeks ago
NFFC Chris Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 I'm so happy for you,and that is coming from someone who has only opened up this thread.I suffer similar problems,I have plenty of mates who are female but suffer deep issues of self confidence when it comes to the crunch.I remember asking a girl out at college last year and the reaction wasn't as a hoped and that did'nt exactly help matters.Your news shows it can be done and there is hope,and the advice I have read on here is absolutely top notch
Granno Posted 8 October 2008 Author Posted 8 October 2008 I'm so happy for you,and that is coming from someone who has only opened up this thread.I suffer similar problems,I have plenty of mates who are female but suffer deep issues of self confidence when it comes to the crunch.I remember asking a girl out at college last year and the reaction wasn't as a hoped and that did'nt exactly help matters.Your news shows it can be done and there is hope,and the advice I have read on here is absolutely top notch Use the advice in this thread, because it's bloody top notch!
Assassins Creed Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 I was going to right an essay, but it was going to make me look like more of a neurotic cow than I already am!What I have learnt is to trust your gut instinct, and go for it. However, this is with the benefit of hindsight, and with the consequence of lost opportunities. You can't help who you are, if they don't like you for it, tough. And no, I still can't accept that theory even now, so you will probably ignore this whole post. It doesn't feel that way at the time!! I take it you only read the header and footer, I think he does say it's the most lonely place to be, and an interesting read being as I have suffered with panic attacks before. Some very interesting posts after reading all that through, good luck with your issues
Guest Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 I take it you only read the header and footer How does that phrase go about assuming........
Assassins Creed Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 How does that phrase go about assuming........ Maybe in riddles like the post!?
Nod.E Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Well done matey, i think i should try this approach, but need to find a nice lass first.Actually when i think about it im fine when talking over MSN or summet like that but when it goes to face to face im shite and loose a bit of the belly I'm very much like you. On msn i'm ridiculously confident. God knows why, possibly because i'm better at writing than speaking? Also I get very self concious about my height. Well, not so much my height - my 'lankiness' 16 years old and 6ft 1. Makes me feel so awkward in real life, that in the end I don't really know what to say. Every girlfriend I've had i've got to know through msn, then meeting them after getting to know them on there - which seems to work fine for me. It's no co-incidence that every girl i've gone out with knows me mainly through msn. Plus, I'm much better at talking to people one on one. Usually when meeting people other people are around, which i'm just not very good at. When I get to know them i'm on my way, fine, great. Just worried that as I get older I won't be able to rely on tinternet. Been single now for roughly 4 months, after an on and off year relationship which was really quite upsetting and i'm in limbo at the moment. Zilch! I don't even like anybody or anything, but I want to. Meh, moan over. Some good advise in here, that website just made me more nervous. You girls are fecking hard to please. Alright for you, you just stand there and look pretty and wait for someone to impress you! Finally, congrats to Granno - quality, top marks, hat's off. Good luck with it all.
potter3 Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 I'm very much like you.On msn i'm ridiculously confident. God knows why, possibly because i'm better at writing than speaking? Also I get very self concious about my height. Well, not so much my height - my 'lankiness' 16 years old and 6ft 1. Being tall is great, when it's packed on the tube you don't end up with your face press in on all sides, you just occupy the space above everyone else's head
Libertine Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Being tall is great, when it's packed on the tube you don't end up with your face press in on all sides, you just occupy the space above everyone else's head Speak for yourself!
lildave3 Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Being tall is great, when it's packed on the tube you don't end up with your face press in on all sides, you just occupy the space above everyone else's head Whereas when you're small your face is pressed somewhere else entirely.
Nod.E Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Whereas when you're small your face is pressed somewhere else entirely.
potter3 Posted 8 October 2008 Posted 8 October 2008 Whereas when you're small your face is pressed somewhere else entirely. You dirty little scamp, you.
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