the actual confidence thread

[Zingari]

Just shove your cock in her ear.

Works everytime!

Seriously though,i think most people fear rejection.

Its part of life but if one doenst ask,one doesnt get.

I asked for a discount on a spare car key yday and afte 5 mins of haggling got it down from £76 to £62!

Back to you though.... i aint one to give advice on such matters bbut just talk to her like you would a mate,get to know her and take it from ther.

If that fails...THEN shove your cock in her ear!

the best way to fook some sense into them

[SOCCERROO FOX]

I'm alright talking to girls, if you know what i mean, its when I have to do something like ask for a number. Something so simple gets me really worked up.

Simple just say i need your number just incase im sick and need notes or similar. Then just start sending the occasional text message outside of work that will lead to the occassional call. It's the way shy people do it

[The People's Hero]

Just blurt it out. Make sure there are lots of people around, she'll feel bound by her sense of decency not to embarrass you but to sort of go along with it all. Before you know it, you'll be unhappily living in an unfulfilled sham of a marriage.

It's all the rage in Nuneaton these days.

[Finnegan]

Just blurt it out. Make sure there are lots of people around, she'll feel bound by her sense of decency not to embarrass you but to sort of go along with it all. Before you know it, you'll be unhappily living in an unfulfilled sham of a marriage.

It's all the rage in Nuneaton these days.

And above all else, remember....

[Granno]

Well I went for Katy's approach in the end, gave her my number etc.

[Durnerz]

Well I went for Katy's approach in the end, gave her my number etc.

Top man!

Now get stalking her on Facebook.....

[Katy]

Well I went for Katy's approach in the end, gave her my number etc.

Yay! Good man, so what did she say etc? Spill!!!!

[Granno]

Yay! Good man, so what did she say etc? Spill!!!!

Well I was sitting with her in a lecture, and was about hyperventilating about doing it. So we got a break and I said 'I want you to have my number, so if you ever need to chat about work or things you can'

And she said 'Thanks that's well sweet'. And transferred my number into her phone.

I'm not too worried about not having a text yet, as long as I keep talking to her the texts will come

Cheers again for the tip

[Asha]

Well I was sitting with her in a lecture, and was about hyperventilating about doing it. So we got a break and I said 'I want you to have my number, so if you ever need to chat about work or things you can'

And she said 'Thanks that's well sweet'. And transferred my number into her phone.

I'm not too worried about not having a text yet, as long as I keep talking to her the texts will come

Cheers again for the tip

Well played mate

[Katy]

Well I was sitting with her in a lecture, and was about hyperventilating about doing it. So we got a break and I said 'I want you to have my number, so if you ever need to chat about work or things you can'

And she said 'Thanks that's well sweet'. And transferred my number into her phone.

I'm not too worried about not having a text yet, as long as I keep talking to her the texts will come

Cheers again for the tip

Ah bless, well done you. Like I say the balls in her court. I hope you feel proud of yourself now, you did it and you looked like a nice bloke as well.

[Granno]

Ah bless, well done you. Like I say the balls in her court. I hope you feel proud of yourself now, you did it and you looked like a nice bloke as well.

Cheers. It's thanks to you that I did it though! If you hadn't advised me I'd still be sitting here missing an opportunity.

And yeah, I'm dead proud

[Durnerz]

Ah bless, well done you. Like I say the balls in her court. I hope you feel proud of yourself now, you did it and you looked like a nice bloke as well.

Careful there Katy, the lads on the verge of getting himself a Missus!

[Katy]

Cheers. It's thanks to you that I did it though! If you hadn't advised me I'd still be sitting here missing an opportunity.

And yeah, I'm dead proud

Glad to have helped a bit then, I'm well pleased. Sometimes you do have to feel the fear and do it anyway. I should take my own advice sometimes.

Careful there Katy, the lads on the verge of getting himself a Missus!

Haha I just meant he looked like a nice bloke to her

[Lovejoy]

Cheers. It's thanks to you that I did it though! If you hadn't advised me I'd still be sitting here missing an opportunity.

And yeah, I'm dead proud

Nice one well done .

[Corky]

Ah bless, well done you. Like I say the balls in her court. I hope you feel proud of yourself now, you did it and you looked like a nice bloke as well.

Wa-hey

[Guest]

Cheers Lisa. Some top notch advice there.

No probs, just need to start doing it mesen!!

I totally understand what your saying. But when you've been laughed at when I asked a girl out, and been told 'I'd rather die than give you my number' it takes a helluva lot to pick yourself back up again.

You're best off out then; what an immature cow!!

[Head Honcho]

"I'd like you to have my number" Like it.

[SOCCERROO FOX]

"I'd like you to have my number" Like it.

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[BigGibbo]

+061448563219

Alright treacle?

[JoeyB]

Well done matey, i think i should try this approach, but need to find a nice lass first.

Actually when i think about it im fine when talking over MSN or summet like that but when it goes to face to face im shite

and loose a bit of the belly

[lcfc_jme]

Confidence is a bit of a shitter round this end, really. Normally in town I don't bother talking to any lasses, just go out with mates, rave it up and have a bit of a laugh and all (maybe throw in the odd bout of sickness / mockage, who knows?) kinda thing. Probab;y through fear of rejection and not wanting to look a bit of a twat, I guess.

Since freshers week started though I've sorta been completely the opposite of that. Been talking random shit to lasses all over the shop, even got one of 'em to agree to meet me for a night out in Lincoln on her birfdee in couple of weeks even thoug hve no idea in hell what she looks like. Guwss the excessivre drunkenness and new surroundings helps, but I've kinda learned that if you dobn't put yourself out there, you've got fck all in the way of hope and you've got less chance than if you actually attempted to try. Matching numbers to faces may prove har dinthe coming weeks.

[Raj]

Confidence is a bit of a shitter round this end, really. Normally in town I don't bother talking to any lasses, just go out with mates, rave it up and have a bit of a laugh and all (maybe throw in the odd bout of sickness / mockage, who knows?) kinda thing. Probab;y through fear of rejection and not wanting to look a bit of a twat, I guess.

Since freshers week started though I've sorta been completely the opposite of that. Been talking random shit to lasses all over the shop, even got one of 'em to agree to meet me for a night out in Lincoln on her birfdee in couple of weeks even thoug hve no idea in hell what she looks like. Guwss the excessivre drunkenness and new surroundings helps, but I've kinda learned that if you dobn't put yourself out there, you've got fck all in the way of hope and you've got less chance than if you actually attempted to try. Matching numbers to faces may prove har dinthe coming weeks.

Go tiger!!!!

P.S To the original poster-Did one take ones advice and shove ones penis into the ear of the object of ones desire???

[Granno]

Unbelievable!

I walk into Lecture today and sit next to her. She asks to borrow a piece of paper, and only bloody writes down her number for me!

Go tiger!!!!

P.S To the original poster-Did one take ones advice and shove ones penis into the ear of the object of ones desire???

I couldn't believe it Raj, but shoving my cock in her ear worked!

[BigGibbo]

Unbelievable!

I walk into Lecture today and sit next to her. She asks to borrow a piece of paper, and only bloody writes down her number for me!

[Foxhateram]

Congrats to the guy who got a girls number

First week i came uni i was fine, got loads people's numbers and confidence overflowed. Pulled a few girls too. Then i kinda got knocked back one night, and i have been knocked back ever since. Not really sure what happened.

(Oh btw we had Elliot Minor at our Flat how cool are we!!!!!!!)