Guest MattP Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 Would anyone on here be prepared to marry a woman who was once a man?
Finnegan Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 You do a cracking job of painting yourself as the over the top loony leftie in threads like this. He has a cock mate. A cock. The fact you think only an over the top lefty loony would be accepting of someone having a hard time with their personal identity says way more about you that me bud. Anyway, I'm off to start my Friday evening. Peace.
RedSoxUK Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 I just object to some of the outright stupid and borderline disgusting shit being spouted about people with very legitimate gender issues. Comparing them to wanting to be a ****ing hedgehog, cmon. You're allowed to express your opinion just as much as Matt is. If we go back to the OP, what would you do with Tara? Tara is cleartly masculine; and there has been cases in the past where in female prisons transgenders have been very harshly treated more so than the transgenders in male prisons. It's been tried and tested. So what would you do?
Darkon84 Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 There must be some contact with other prisoners, otherwise the whole argument is moot, apart from the fact that she wants to be treated as a women, but is in a male prison, if she is kept away from all other inmates, as she probably would be if she was in a female prison, due to the penis issue, then it really doesn't matter. He has contact for 1 hour per day where they are under guard watch. He showers alone. Precisely, that's why I don't see much of a problem, it's not like he's been thrown to the wolves per say. You're damned if you do, damned if you don't in this situation. However, it's being handled as best it can be, by keeping him separate from the other prisoners as much as they can. I really don't know what people expect or think should happen here.
Les-TA-Jon Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 Congratulations your expert working out just identified about 80% of foxestalk members. However, it didn't identify me. Why don't you just go full liberal and call him a white privileged cisgendered binary male scum? Brilliant he went with that accusation to one of the few on the board who aren't though Ironicallly these sort of people genuinely think everyone conforms to their own prejudices and stereotypes. You've all misunderstood me. That was just my best guess as to MPH's personal identity, because that's an educated guess at the demography of most posters on here. I'm not saying "Let me guess, you're a white privileged male". My point still stands - Personal identity isn't some small - 'leftie' ideal. It's a fundamental aspect of human life. And our ability to express it, have it tolerated, accepted or embraced by others is key to our personal wellbeing. Therefore if MPH, or anyone else on here goes through life expecting to be identified as the various factors that make up their demography, then why can't a trans person, when they choose to be?
ScouseFox Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 It's so typical of you to make grand statements about how morally superior you are and then inform us that you aren't able to explain why you're right. It's boring. agreed @@Finnegan has all the answers but never shares them what a troll
Webbo Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 So I'm not sure that your point backs up why she should be placed in a male prison to protect female prisoners? Unless you're saying that she should be in a male prison so that female inmates cannot be raped. But then if she is not sexually attracted to women then I don't think that would happen either.We don't put gay men in women's prisons and they're not attracted to women either.Personally I'm not bothered either way. I just find these black a nd white attitudes a bit silly. There are no easy answers but someone has to decide. The courts say he has to stay in a man's prison so I accept that.
RedSoxUK Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 So I'm not sure that your point backs up why she should be placed in a male prison to protect female prisoners? Unless you're saying that she should be in a male prison so that female inmates cannot be raped. But then if she is not sexually attracted to women then I don't think that would happen either. Tara should be in a mans prison cause Tara is a man, it's as simple as that really. But to go with protecting her gender identity; they will help Tara as best they can. There are already transgender's in man prisons, same for woman prisons; this isn't a new concept. The idea of letting Tara stay in a woman prison because it will be more comfortable for Tara is completely unjustified in argument.
Voll Blau Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 Not sure people would be able to get away with posting such comments about any other group of people in the world living with a pre-determined medical condition, but hey ho. Thankfully children are taught about this in schools now so in future generations such prejudice will become less and less acceptable. Not seeking to be "holier than thou" here before anyone has a dig by the way. It's not something I was ever educated on myself so I used to make assumptions about transgendered people too.
Guest MattP Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 Someone own up to saying they would marry a post op tranny please. Not Ozleicester though as he already has.
lianne81 Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 I think that if she is being kept in her own part what is the problem with her being in a woman's prison ? . You say she has a penis and may assault female prisoners the chances are she fancies males so the risk is low. One thing with transgender she will not think off herself as a he so being in a male prison could lead to depression etc x.
Captain... Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 Would anyone on here be prepared to marry a woman who was once a man? Yes if I loved them, the heart wants what the heart wants Matt, but before you get the op, I should warn you I am currently off the market.
Merging Cultures Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 Classy! Hyperbolic, insensitive language much? So if someone's personal identity is aligned with a gender different to their sex, they shouldn't be allowed to make that choice and ask society to treat them as such? This is highlighting how a lot of people in this thread are confused. Transvestite = A man that likes to dress in women's clothing Transsexual = A person who's sexual identity is the opposite to their biological sex Transgender = A person who's personal gender identify is either the opposite to their biological sex and/or ambigous But it's not that simple though is it, sure in terms of the law and how things are legally classified on forms and for state bureaucracy the 'facts are facts'. But the biology of it all is only part of the issue. They can ask whatever they want, doesn't me everyone has to.
ScouseFox Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 who deleted my post so rude it was a joke, finners would've liked the joke he's a happy go lucky guy like myself. clearly this is not the thread for us type.
Guest MattP Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 Don't underestimate children's ability to see through bullshit Voll. I remember the left wing social engineering project that was secondary school, virtually every reference pulled from the Guardian and an assortment of feminists and Labour voters from the teaching profession trying to guide us through it. Most saw through it then and they'll continue to do so no matter how much society tries to "condition" them.
Captain... Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 He has contact for 1 hour per day where they are under guard watch. He showers alone. Precisely, that's why I don't see much of a problem, it's not like he's been thrown to the wolves per say. You're damned if you do, damned if you don't in this situation. However, it's being handled as best it can be, by keeping him separate from the other prisoners as much as they can. I really don't know what people expect or think should happen here. The same thing but in a women's prison. That 1 hour a day can't be pleasant, looking like a woman surrounded by men who have been deprived female contact.
RedSoxUK Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 @@ScouseFox Have you ever met a transgender on Tinder? #LAD #Scouse #Fox
RedSoxUK Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 Don't underestimate children's ability to see through bullshit Voll. I remember the left wing social engineering project that was secondary school, virtually every reference pulled from the Guardian and an assortment of feminists and Labour voters from the teaching profession trying to guide us through it. Most saw through it then and they'll continue to do so no matter how much society tries to "condition" them. A reminder that this is what's called 'progress' in 2015 http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/oct/29/time-to-do-away-with-manhood?CMP=fb_us
Voll Blau Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 Don't underestimate children's ability to see through bullshit Voll. I remember the left wing social engineering project that was secondary school, virtually every reference pulled from the Guardian and an assortment of feminists and Labour voters from the teaching profession trying to guide us through it. Most saw through it then and they'll continue to do so no matter how much society tries to "condition" them. I'm not sure your GP would describe it as "bullshit".
ScouseFox Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 @@RedSoxUK not allowed to say anything interesting or funny or really anything at all cos it might get deleted sorry, peace out
EnderbyFox Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 Speaking of transitioning, MattP is slowly but surely transitioning into Dangerous Tiger
Darkon84 Posted 30 October 2015 Posted 30 October 2015 The same thing but in a women's prison. That 1 hour a day can't be pleasant, looking like a woman surrounded by men who have been deprived female contact. Perhaps all the women might not take kindly to having someone walking around who still has a penis, regardless of persuasion. Perhaps the sex starved women might fancy some c*ck? It's all a lot of what ifs and guesswork. There's arguments each way and most people can see it each way. Regardless, there has been a ruling by people far more clued up on it all than any of us here, and I can totally see why they have reached that decision.
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