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2 minutes ago, LiberalFox said:

How does the status of the Chagos Islands affect you, affect us? It's not even really British seeing as there's a US military base there. I didn't think Corbyn's actions over the Salisbury incident were great but "took Russia's side" isn't exactly true is it? Anyway not my party to defend. :)

It is indicative of the man - he takes the principle over the individuals impacted every time.

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17 minutes ago, Bellend Sebastian said:

Wat?

 

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-50546184

 

Increasingly, I despair of the world and live in hope that sea levels will rise sufficiently to drown us all

FWIW I don't think this represents much of an increase in recent times - such consent violations used to be part and parcel of "being married" for unfortunate women and it simply wasn't talked about.

 

Unfortunately it is also showing that the importance of consent isn't reaching the skulls of a lot of blokes that need to hear it and so perhaps different methods might be needed to accomplish that.

 

2 minutes ago, MattP said:

Surprisingly popular though in my experience. 

....except when it's not and it becomes a consent violation, which seems to be more popular. Let's not go down the "some women enjoy it" mitigation route, shall we?

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22 minutes ago, Bellend Sebastian said:

Wat?

 

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-50546184

 

Increasingly, I despair of the world and live in hope that sea levels will rise sufficiently to drown us all

Too many sad 'alpha male' types spending too much time watching pornhub.

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4 minutes ago, leicsmac said:

...except when it's not and it becomes a consent violation, which seems to be more popular. Let's not go down the "some women enjoy it" mitigation route, shall we?

But some do. I don't see the point in pretending otherwise. Why kid ourselves? There are ways to find out and it doesn't take long. 

 

Obviously if someone carries on when it's clearly not wanted it's sexual assault, sure we all agree on that.

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7 minutes ago, MattP said:

But some do. I don't see the point in pretending otherwise. Why kid ourselves? There are ways to find out and it doesn't take long. 

 

Obviously if someone carries on when it's clearly not wanted it's sexual assault, sure we all agree on that.

You're right, some do.

 

My point is that fact has absolutely zero relevance to those same sexual assaults and I wish that lawyers and laymen both would not seek to bring it into a discussion as because it is irrelevant it serves no more purpose than an attempt to mitigate and often victim-blame (not saying that you are doing that right here btw, you've been clear on that, just that there are manifold examples of it).

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11 minutes ago, leicsmac said:

You're right, some do.

 

My point is that fact has absolutely zero relevance to those same sexual assaults and I wish that lawyers and laymen both would not seek to bring it into a discussion as because it is irrelevant it serves no more purpose than an attempt to mitigate and often victim-blame (not saying that you are doing that right here btw, you've been clear on that, just that there are manifold examples of it).

Surely anything factual should be allowed in a court of law should it not? 

 

Why would you hide the truth from a jury?

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7 minutes ago, MattP said:

Surely anything factual should be allowed in a court of law should it not? 

 

Why would you hide the truth from a jury?

It should certainly be allowed in a court of law...followed by a swift objection from prosecution counsel for relevance that is then sustained by the judge. Should take all of a couple of minutes.

The defence counsel should use any and all possible tactics to help their client, but that doesn't mean that a judge has to tolerate defences based on irrelevant data (Chewbacca Defence) otherwise each case would be ten times as long as they are.

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3 minutes ago, leicsmac said:

It should certainly be allowed in a court of law...followed by a swift objection from prosecution counsel for relevance that is then sustained by the judge. Should take all of a couple of minutes.

The defence counsel should use any and all possible tactics to help their client, but that doesn't mean that a judge has to tolerate defences based on irrelevant data (Chewbacca Defence) otherwise each case would be ten times as long as they are.

If it's relevant to a case it should be heard, you can't rig a court hearing in favour of one side. 

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1 hour ago, MattP said:

If it's relevant to a case it should be heard, you can't rig a court hearing in favour of one side. 

 

1 hour ago, leicsmac said:

But it's not relevant. And this is my third post saying this - I'm curious as to why you seemingly think that it is.

I kind of agree with both of you. Ideally a jury wouldn't be taken in by bollocks defences but where there's indication that this is happening what should be done about it? We don't want people getting away with sexual assault do we?  

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34 minutes ago, LiberalFox said:

 

I kind of agree with both of you. Ideally a jury wouldn't be taken in by bollocks defences but where there's indication that this is happening what should be done about it? We don't want people getting away with sexual assault do we?  

Can you clarify what you mean by "this" in this context as I'm a little confused?

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8 minutes ago, leicsmac said:

Can you clarify what you mean by "this" in this context as I'm a little confused?

Sorry jumped a little ahead. I mean people who commit sexual assault getting away with it because of how easy to claim something was consensual. Seen some really shocking examples. Maybe I'm not putting it across quite right.

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7 minutes ago, LiberalFox said:

Sorry jumped a little ahead. I mean people who commit sexual assault getting away with it because of how easy to claim something was consensual. Seen some really shocking examples. 

Oh yeah, now I get it.

 

And the only reason they do that is because for some reason some folks are bound and determined to draw links between consensual kink and grotesque consent violations of this type when the former has absolutely zero relevance to the latter and any such argument should really be shot down for relevance by a prosecution lawyer and judge the moment it is delivered.

 

It's the "well, she was wearing X" argument in rape cases all over again.

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4 minutes ago, leicsmac said:

Oh yeah, now I get it.

 

And the only reason they do that is because for some reason some folks are bound and determined to draw links between consensual kink and grotesque consent violations of this type when the former has absolutely zero relevance to the latter and any such argument should really be shot down for relevance by a prosecution lawyer and judge the moment it is delivered.

 

It's the "well, she was wearing X" argument in rape cases all over again.

Yeah exactly, you wouldn't get a "well some women like sex" argument in a rape case. The acts aren't relevant it's the consent that matters.

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2 hours ago, leicsmac said:

But it's not relevant. And this is my third post saying this - I'm curious as to why you seemingly think that it is.

But sometimes it is relevant. That's the point.

 

We are talking about cases here where people can be locked up for years - the jury should know everything before coming to that conclusion. 

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2 minutes ago, MattP said:

But sometimes it is relevant. That's the point.

 

We are talking about cases here where people can be locked up for years - the jury should know everything before coming to that conclusion. 

I'm curious as to when it is relevant, then.

 

When a bloke decides to give a woman a black eye and a broken nose because she said that she might be up for something a bit spicier but didn't specify further?

 

When a bloke kills his other half and then claims that it was some dreadful accident because apparently she gave consent to having her windpipe crushed for over three minutes?

 

What, exactly, does the conditions of consent as they pertain to one person or another have to do with that consent being clearly and willfully violated?

 

As LF above says, it's the violation of consent that matters, exactly where that line of consent exists with whoever was unlucky enough to be the victim is immaterial.

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10 minutes ago, leicsmac said:

I'm curious as to when it is relevant, then.

 

When a bloke decides to give a woman a black eye and a broken nose because she said that she might be up for something a bit spicier but didn't specify further?

 

When a bloke kills his other half and then claims that it was some dreadful accident because apparently she gave consent to having her windpipe crushed for over three minutes?

 

What, exactly, does the conditions of consent as they pertain to one person or another have to do with that consent being clearly and willfully violated?

 

As LF above says, it's the violation of consent that matters, exactly where that line of consent exists with whoever was unlucky enough to be the victim is immaterial.

The fact you immediately have to go to the extent of black eyes and a broken nose shows just how it's impossible to even talk about this sensibly.

 

A court of law should have every piece of information available to it - you shouldn't not hear things because you want to influence a decision. 

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