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Are you a good person?

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a pissed up work colleague from Wolverhampton called me a "top top geezer". so I think that answers the question  :thumbup:

 

I regularly get told that I'm someones best friend and they admire me and my job and they love me and they are eternally grateful and they think I'm really great and where would they be without me (and my kind)...

 

It's usually accompanied by e stench of stale alcohol and fags though... and frequently some blood.

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From a female point of view, I think being 'gentlemanly' is really important. Not in a completely overt 'sucking up' kinda way, but just through thoughtful/respectful manners. :)

that's odd , because i think women ought to be ladylike and show respect in a sucking up way 

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I'd like to think I am, yes... Been complimented many times, I still enjoy getting 'gentleman' comments. Had that many times from girls; I do hold doors for them etc.

 

Yeah okay and how much fanny is that getting you?

 

Not as much as he thought it would.

i'm so good i can read a book at night just by the light from my halo.

 

I can go one better...

 

If I bend over I can light the whole room :P

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Not as much as he thought it would.

 

I can go one better...

 

If I bend over I can light the whole room :P

not without a match or other type of naked flame though  :)

Posted

I'm a reasonably decent bloke, but have bouts of passive aggression and sarcasm that mean I'm not the pushover I was years ago.

 

I'm fundamentally decent though, polite and empathetic towards the people I give a shit about and a bit of a twat to anybody who pisses me or my friends/family off.

Posted

I don't go out my way to be good but I try my best to respect and have empathy for others. If I was religious I hope I would get the nod from St Peter at the pearly Gates.

 

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Posted

Had similar thoughts around the break up of my last relationship, it's tough and you do and say things that you don't necessarily mean, and sometimes you say things that you think will make her feel better, that you think is a little white lie but that makes things worse. Then when you are honest with her you know you will hurt her, but sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, other times you end up releasing all this pent up frustration and say something you don't mean.

 

I wouldn't beat yourself up over it, break ups suck, especially when you are living together, or god forbid have kids, and raking over them is only going to keep the pain fresh, all you can do is learn from it and not make the same mistakes in your next relationship.

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I don't go out my way to be good but I try my best to respect and have empathy for others. If I was religious I hope I would get the not from St Peter at the pearly Gates.

 

Is that a typo where you've written "not", Mr. Rince?

 

I expect you meant that you'd get "not him!"......er, er, I mean "the nod"!

Posted

I'm an arsehole. Didnt used to be, in fact, I ised to be a really decent guy. I can see it happening as time goes on i'm becoming more and more unpleasent.

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I'm an arsehole. Didnt used to be, in fact, I ised to be a really decent guy. I can see it happening as time goes on i'm becoming more and more unpleasent.

 

Did that correspond with joining foxes talk? Are you suffering from knee jerk reactions, and will argue anything with anyone, do you find yourself labelling everyone you meet as a happy clapper/bummer/WUM/hater, serisouly losing faith in the human race? I think you may be suffering from Foxestalkitis. (Or just growing old and into a grumpy git.)

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Had similar thoughts around the break up of my last relationship, it's tough and you do and say things that you don't necessarily mean, and sometimes you say things that you think will make her feel better, that you think is a little white lie but that makes things worse. Then when you are honest with her you know you will hurt her, but sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind, other times you end up releasing all this pent up frustration and say something you don't mean.

I wouldn't beat yourself up over it, break ups suck, especially when you are living together, or god forbid have kids, and raking over them is only going to keep the pain fresh, all you can do is learn from it and not make the same mistakes in your next relationship.

Thanks for that
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Is that a typo where you've written "not", Mr. Rince?

 

I expect you meant that you'd get "not him!"......er, er, I mean "the nod"!

yes its nod not not

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