Break ups

[FireFox]

doesn't mean it happens to everyone else

True. But had it sort of happen twice, and know another it happened with, so just what came to my mind first. Maybe I should have said possibly, not probably.

[Strokes]

doesn't mean it happens to everyone else

It's actually a wel known logic, you judge people by your own standards.

[Brenfox]

women are mental

If I could give rep points from my phone if use them all up on this.

[Charl91]

i don't understand this logic

 

I've watched Jeremy Kyle before. It's true!

[AoWW]

Of course she could have just been feeling insecure.  

[Countryfox]

Take your shoe laces out and flush them down the toilet with any pills you have in the house ....    then go out with your mates and get pissed.

[AyewJoking]

a picture of said bunny boiler will help us tell you whether you made the right decision

[Countryfox]

a picture of said bunny boiler will help us tell you whether you made the right decision

 

With or without clothes on ....

[AyewJoking]

Take your shoe laces out and flush them down the toilet with any pills you have in the house ....    then go out with your mates and get pissed.

 

he wont get in anywhere once they see he has no shoe laces 

[Unabomber]

a picture of said bunny boiler will help us tell you whether you made the right decision

this

[Countryfox]

he wont get in anywhere once they see he has no shoe laces 

 

 

Borrow your mates till you get in ...   thats what they're there for ...  moral and shoelace support.

[Steve_Guppy_Left_Foot]

If a woman is convinced you're cheating and you're an open enough lad about stuff then she is almost definitely cheating.

[Jattdogg]

My brother kicked out his now ex on thursday after he found out she had been cheating on him. Been together for easily 6 or 7 years. He is only 24 so suggested he bury his meat in some new lovely ladies.

[z-layrex]

My gf of 6 years cheated on me a few years ago. Spent the next couple years being very down and untrusting of women I dated. She absolutely killed me.

 

Met a Portuguese nurse at work a couple years ago who managed to sort me out. We just bought a flat together.

 

Point is, chin up it gets better and don't let it take your trust if you can help it.

[Soar Fox]

An ex of mine cheated on me with Richard Stearman in 2007.

Quite strange really finding out your missus has been cheating on you with someone, then a few weeks later cheering the same lad as he scores away at Bristol.

[lianne81]

If a woman is convinced you're cheating and you're an open enough lad about stuff then she is almost definitely cheating.

Not always it could be that they have been hurt bad in the past and find it hard to trust anyone. x 

[VLC86]

My gf of 6 years cheated on me a few years ago. Spent the next couple years being very down and untrusting of women I dated. She absolutely killed me.

Met a Portuguese nurse at work a couple years ago who managed to sort me out. We just bought a flat together.

Point is, chin up it gets better and don't let it take your trust if you can help it.

Well here is a clear message to the OP, find a nice Portuguese nurse and the world is a better place.... As long as it's not the same one otherwise this thread could get pretty dark.

[J.Lisemore]

If she accused you of cheating, it's probably because she had at least been thinking about doing it herself.

 

And probably best the break up was "not nice" - that way no chance of getting back together.

 

I'd agree with that to an extent, it all seems so obvious after time.

[SystonFox]

An ex of mine cheated on me with Richard Stearman in 2007.

Quite strange really finding out your missus has been cheating on you with someone, then a few weeks later cheering the same lad as he scores away at Bristol.

Bizarre

[Steven]

An ex of mine cheated on me with Richard Stearman in 2007.

Quite strange really finding out your missus has been cheating on you with someone, then a few weeks later cheering the same lad as he scores away at Bristol.

 

A strange taste in men.   

[casablancas]

I'm actually a nurse myself. And she's now messaging me asking me to reconsider. Proper pulling on the heart strings man, torn as to what to do.

[StanSP]

I'm actually a nurse myself. And she's now messaging me asking me to reconsider. Proper pulling on the heart strings man, torn as to what to do.

 

swerve it. why is she now asking you to reconsider??

[daddylonglegs]

I'm actually a nurse myself. And she's now messaging me asking me to reconsider. Proper pulling on the heart strings man, torn as to what to do.

Never make a decision if you can in the heat of the moment. Have a week apart and if you're still really upset and missing her then, maybe trying and talk things through. 

[casablancas]

Is a long story. Basically she's paranoid that I'm playing away and for once I've behaved. Not once cheated on her but she sees girls messaging me and just creates these scenarios. She's clearly been hurt in the past and I've somewhat tried to help reasure her. However I've had enough of the constant paranoia and checking and the like so I ended it. She's now saying she loves me and wants another go and she will change. All I want is to go gym .

[StanSP]

Is a long story. Basically she's paranoid that I'm playing away and for once I've behaved. Not once cheated on her but she sees girls messaging me and just creates these scenarios. She's clearly been hurt in the past and I've somewhat tried to help reasure her. However I've had enough of the constant paranoia and checking and the like so I ended it. She's now saying she loves me and wants another go and she will change. All I want is to go gym .

 

go to the gym. make her wait seeing as she's messed you around and wrongfully accused you of something you haven't done. 

 

and what's her 'guarantee' or reassurance from her that she will change?