What annoys you about..... you?

[ozleicester]

I often respond to comments and topics before reading through the rest of the thread. Belt out my reply, only to then read back that others have said the same thing even better than i could.

I suffer enormously from buyers remorse.

[Vacamion]

 

Job Interview Response: I'm a bit of a perfectionist and I can throw myself into my work a bit too deeply sometimes.

 

Actual response: I'm a mostly lazy shitebag who, increasingly disillusioned with late stage Capitalism, may attempt to bring my employer down from the inside.  If I could be arsed.

 

 

 

 

[Julian Joachim Jr Shabadoo]

Loads of stuff, but mainly I have a sort of delayed self-awareness. I come out with utter shit in conversation with people and afterwards I think "why did I come out with that?" And it can bother me for ages

[leicsmac]

Lack of attention on important matters that end up with me doing them less well than I should.

 

Dwelling too much on past trauma, even minor.

 

Not being able or willing to play the political and nepotic games that seem to be necessary to move upward in the working world.

[Milo]

Judginess. 
 

I’m very judgey.
 

 

It’s really not cool. 

[Soup]

I try and please everybody, at work and in my private life. Leads to all sorts of stress

[Bellend Sebastian]

Inability to look more than about 3 days into the future. Hence a bit of a shit summer for the family on the cards

[ALC Fox]

Procrastination

 

Fear of failure

 

They're pretty intertwined as well I'd say.

[foxile5]

I have a temper. I'm capable of being uncaring. I think I failed to show resilience about ten years ago and I'm embarrassed and ashamed by it. 

[goose2010]

losing a bit of weight getting to a bit better level of fitness and then finding every excuse possible to not carry it on. 

 

Dropped 2 stone in the last 6 months and completed couch to 5k.... now haven't been for a few weeks and old eating habits starting to creep in. 

[Izzy]

I think about money far too much. My bank balance is usually the last thing on my mind before I fall asleep.

 

Even when I've got money, I still think about it. Am I investing it wisely? Am I saving enough? Am I spending too much?

 

It's a bit obsessive and causes me unnecessary stress.

 

[Livid]

40 minutes ago, goose2010 said:

losing a bit of weight getting to a bit better level of fitness and then finding every excuse possible to not carry it on. 

 

Dropped 2 stone in the last 6 months and completed couch to 5k.... now haven't been for a few weeks and old eating habits starting to creep in. 

You’re not alone I was walking everyday being incredibly good then the clocks changed and It just through me out. 
 

Still eating reasonably healthy but not as disciplined as I was. 

[Arriba Los Zorros]

Would be easier to list the things that don't frankly!!

[Stinkenzo]

I hold grudges for about 78 years on average

[Rain King]

Worrying about anything and everything.

 

Also, can't buy anything, book anything, do anything without reading hundreds of reviews first or weighing up pros and cons.

[foxfanazer]

My penis is far too big.  Really gets in the way sometimes 

 

Also I can be quite sarcastic at times

Edited 22 June 2021 by foxfanazer

[Free Falling Foxes]

Explaining myself, even when it is not at all necessary.

 

I think it stems from when I was a young lad and a neighbour complained about me to my dad about some damage that I was totally innocent of. My dad, to his credit, believed me but I was shit scared at the time.

 

There I go again. .......... explaining myself!

[ozleicester]

20 minutes ago, Rain King said:

Also, can't buy anything, book anything, do anything without reading hundreds of reviews first or weighing up pros and cons.

this is my buyers remorse ... ive just ordered an electric razor... read dozens of reviews, found the best price..but already disapointed before ive even got it

[Rain King]

1 minute ago, ozleicester said:

this is my buyers remorse ... ive just ordered an electric razor... read dozens of reviews, found the best price..but already disapointed before ive even got it

I can see 1000 positive reviews but one negative review will send me into a spin.

[Free Falling Foxes]

If I 'win' something on ebay, my first thought is always, 'Shit, did I really need that?'

Edited 22 June 2021 by Free Falling Foxes

[Dunge]

3 hours ago, ALC Fox said:

Procrastination

 

Fear of failure

 

They're pretty intertwined as well I'd say.

I’m totally with you on this.

[Aus Fox]

The fact that I’m completely snowed under at work and working about 60 hours a week, whilst trying to complete my masters and have jobs list that never seems to end around the house - and here I am reading about what annoys other Foxes about themselves - Just do some work FFS Aus!

[ajthefox]

Good idea for a thread this, @ozleicester.

 

This is the first thing that sprung to my mind...

 

2 hours ago, Arriba Los Zorros said:

Would be easier to list the things that don't frankly!!

...but there are also several other posts above that ring true for me.

 

I would say overthinking anything and everything (one of the main reasons for me having mental health issues) and my ever changing mood are the two biggest things for me.

 

Hopefully people can take something positive from this thread in sharing their foibles and realising we all are different and yet in many ways the same.

[thursday_next]

I moan out load every day about embarrassing things that happened ages ago and that have long been forgotten by the other people involved. I wish that I could see my life in more of a positive way instead of seeing every good thing that's happened to me over the years as a stroke of luck. I suppose that there are therapies for this but (a) I can't be bothered and (b) I don't want to delve into my past life to discover other embarrassing things that I hadn't thought of yet, which would most likely be the end product of it all. 

[FerrisBueller]

I'm essentially too lazy to have a meaningful existence, I simply cannot be arsed with any of it.